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RU5H, a new all-gay, trans-inclusive travel and lifestyle brand, made its debut at San Francisco's Folsom Street Fair in September 2025, announcing plans for kink-minded cruises, resort takeovers, and fetish events.

A bold new player has entered the LGBTQ+ travel market with an explicitly sex-positive mission. RU5H, billing itself as an "all-gay, all-male travel and lifestyle brand," announced its launch with a provocative activation at the Folsom Street Fair on September 28, 2025, promising to deliver "unapologetically sex-progressive vacations" that combine kink culture with luxury travel experiences .

The brand's debut at the world's largest leather and fetish gathering set the tone for what travelers can expect. The RU5H activation featured a playground setup that became a notable gathering spot at the fair, complete with pup masks, slings, and a rotating penis-and-scrotum disco ball—a clear signal of the company's commitment to creating spaces where sexual expression is not just tolerated but celebrated .

RU5H positions itself as welcoming "gay, bi, and pan men and male-identifying adventurers ready to explore their desires on their own terms" . This inclusive language explicitly welcomes transgender men and non-binary individuals who identify as male, marking a progressive stance in the gay cruise market.

The brand's Instagram presence offers an unfiltered preview of its philosophy: "Welcome to RU5H: the no-shame, all-gay male & male identifying vacation escapes where fantasies roar to life. Dance, flirt, and f**k under the stars with zero apologies. This is your invitation to indulge with few limits, surrender to pleasure, and revel in pure decadence" .

In an exclusive statement to Out Magazine, RU5H's founders explained their vision: "RU5H is where sexual freedom and adventurous travel meet. Launching at Folsom Street Fair was our way of honoring the fearless creativity of the kink community and inviting men everywhere to take that spirit with them on every RU5H escape" .

Central to the RU5H brand identity are what the company calls its "five pillars": sex, stimulation, submission, seduction, and satisfaction. The brand stylizes these words by replacing the letter "s" with the number five, reflecting the numerical branding in its name .

An Instagram post elaborating on the "5ex" pillar describes it as "the unapologetic heartbeat of RU5H, where raw desire and unfiltered pleasure set everything in motion" . This framework positions sexual freedom as the foundational element of the travel experience, with the other pillars supporting various aspects of kink and fetish exploration.

A press release detailing the brand's offerings promised "unapologetically sex-progressive vacations in the form of three- and four-night full-ship cruises, resort takeovers, and pop-up fetish events that combine underground energy, uninhibited freedom, and just the right amount of hospitality" . The release further described RU5H as "engineered for men who want to play harder, let go of inhibitions, break free from personal boundaries, and live out (nearly) every fantasy" .

While specific details remain under wraps, RU5H has confirmed it will announce its inaugural "high-voltage, all-gay big-ship getaway" in mid-December 2025 . The reference to a "big-ship" suggests the company has chartered a large ocean-going vessel, similar to other established gay cruise operators.

In the meantime, interested travelers can visit ru5h.com to view a promotional video and enter a sweepstakes for a chance to win a trip on one of the brand's upcoming voyages .

The timing of RU5H's entry into the market comes as LGBTQ+ travel continues to expand and diversify. The company is positioning itself alongside established players in the gay cruise market, though with a distinctly more explicit focus on sexual expression and kink culture than many of its competitors.

RU5H enters a well-established LGBTQ+ cruise market that has been serving the community for decades. Major charter companies like Atlantis Events, which focuses on gay men, and Olivia, which caters exclusively to lesbians, have long partnered with mainstream cruise lines to offer all-LGBTQ+ sailings .

These established operators typically charter entire ships from major cruise lines including Celebrity Cruises, Holland America Line, Royal Caribbean, Uniworld, Azamara, and Virgin Voyages, then customize the experience with LGBTQ+-focused entertainment, musical guests, and speakers .

However, even within this established market, there have been ongoing discussions about boundaries and appropriate conduct. In 2023, Atlantis Events reportedly asked gay cruise passengers to refrain from making pornographic films during voyages , highlighting the ongoing negotiation between sexual freedom and appropriate public behavior that exists even in LGBTQ+-exclusive spaces.

RU5H appears to be positioning itself as an alternative for travelers seeking a more overtly sexual and kink-friendly environment than traditional gay cruises might offer. The brand's emphasis on fetish events, darkly decadent parties, and "round-the-clock fetish-fueled experiences" suggests it aims to capture a niche market of travelers specifically interested in exploring BDSM, leather culture, and other kink-related interests in a vacation setting .

The launch of RU5H reflects broader trends in LGBTQ+ travel, where operators are increasingly offering specialized experiences that cater to specific segments of the community. While traditional gay cruises and lesbian cruises continue to thrive, there's growing demand for experiences that reflect the diverse interests within LGBTQ+ communities, from adventure travel to cultural tourism to explicitly sexual experiences.

Other LGBTQ+ travel companies have found success by offering tailored experiences. For example, The Cruise, powered by La Demence, has been organizing European gay cruises in the Mediterranean for more than a decade . Meanwhile, John Heath Travel has partnered with Transcend Cruises to offer river cruises specifically designed for LGBTQ+ travelers, including a Rhine River cruise in August 2025 aboard "The Gentleman" .

These various operators demonstrate that the LGBTQ+ travel market can support multiple approaches and philosophies, from family-friendly cruises to explicitly adult-oriented experiences.

While RU5H's promotional materials emphasize freedom and lack of inhibition, questions remain about how the company will balance sexual freedom with safety, consent, and legal compliance. Operating a cruise ship involves navigating complex maritime law, port regulations, and the policies of cruise line partners who ultimately own the vessels.

The brand's promise to deliver experiences with "few limits" and facilitate guests living out "nearly every fantasy" will need to be reconciled with practical realities of operating in international waters and visiting ports in various countries with different legal frameworks around public sexual behavior .

Additionally, while the brand's trans-inclusive language is progressive, how this inclusion will be implemented in practice—particularly in spaces traditionally dominated by cisgender gay male culture—remains to be seen.

As RU5H prepares to announce its inaugural cruise in December, the LGBTQ+ travel community will be watching to see how the brand delivers on its bold promises. The company's success will likely depend on its ability to create genuinely liberating experiences while managing the logistical, legal, and interpersonal complexities that come with facilitating sexual expression in a group travel setting.

For travelers interested in kink-friendly LGBTQ+ vacations, RU5H represents a new option that explicitly centers sexual freedom and fetish culture. Whether it will establish itself as a lasting presence in the LGBTQ+ travel market or remain a niche offering will become clearer once the company begins operating its promised cruises, resort takeovers, and pop-up events.

The brand's launch also raises broader questions about the evolving nature of LGBTQ+ spaces and travel. As acceptance of LGBTQ+ people has increased in many parts of the world, some community members have expressed concern about the sanitization of queer culture and the loss of explicitly sexual spaces that were once central to LGBTQ+ identity and community building. RU5H's unapologetic embrace of sexual freedom could be seen as a response to these concerns, offering an alternative to increasingly mainstream gay travel experiences.

As the mid-December announcement approaches, interested travelers can visit the company's website for updates and opportunities to be among the first to experience this new approach to LGBTQ+ travel.

Queer Scout, a new tour service in Medellín, Colombia, is offering specialized experiences for LGBTQ+ travelers, including bar crawls, cultural tours, and guided excursions to nearby destinations.

Medellín, Colombia, has emerged as a dynamic destination for LGBTQ+ travelers seeking authentic cultural experiences combined with vibrant nightlife, and a newly-launched tour service is working to make the city more accessible to queer visitors from around the world. Queer Scout, which began operations in 2024, offers a range of specialized tours and experiences designed specifically for LGBTQ+ travelers exploring Colombia's second-largest city .

Ben Rice | Guessing Headlights  Oct 9
7 MIN READ

While some may mourn the end of summer, others love the arrival of fall. Gentle sunshine, crisp mornings, and dramatic skyscapes make for one of the Northern Hemisphere’s most beautiful seasons. However, while some lament the early nightfall and frost on their car windscreens, others are planning road trips and, quite possibly, train journeys.

While some may mourn the end of summer, others love the arrival of fall. Gentle sunshine, crisp mornings, and dramatic skyscapes make for one of the Northern Hemisphere’s most beautiful seasons. However, while some lament the early nightfall and frost on their car windscreens, others are planning road trips and, quite possibly, train journeys.

by Ben Rice | Guessing Headlights

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Mike Householder  Oct 8
3 MIN READ

A suburban Detroit haunted house prepares its scare actors for the Halloween season by sending them to school

Grotesque makeup, menacing props and intimidating costumes are just one part of a Michigan haunted house's 25-year-old formula to terrify guests.

by Mike Householder

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Dr. William Kapfer  Oct 7
1 MIN READ

As I look back on those whirlwind days in London—filled with theater, laughter, long dinners, and the kind of conversations that nourish the soul—I’m reminded of how lucky I am to live a life threaded together by such extraordinary people and places.

September came and went in a blur of planes, parties, and performances—so much so that I found myself off the grid when it came to writing my column. With a month this packed, one piece simply won’t do it justice. I have so many adventures to share that I’ll need three columns in a row just to cover September.
 
Instead of spanning coast to coast and across the globe all at once, this edition focuses solely on our London trip—a whirlwind packed with theater, friends, community impact, and unexpected encounters. London deserves its own spotlight, while my next installments will take you back across the pond and on to the rest of September’s adventures in Phoenix, Tucson, Atlanta, and beyond. And with the city in the grip of a tube strike that week, we experienced London above ground—on foot, by bus, and by cab—giving every outing its own sense of adventure and discovery.

From New York to London for Evita’s Last Curtain

Eric and I boarded a red-eye out of Newark—hardly the most reliable airport in the area, but for overnight flights to London, it offers the widest selection. It was the kind of flight where the anticipation of what awaited us across the Atlantic made sleep elusive. After more than a year and a half of commuting back and forth to the UK, we’ve found our rhythm on United’s Polaris service: dinner in the lounge before boarding, just a light snack on the plane, and always saving room for the ice cream sundae cart (extra hot fudge, please). A movie, a sip of Baileys, and a decaf cappuccino set the perfect stage for a little dozing before wheels down in London.
 
We landed on the morning of September 6th, dropped our bags at the Four Seasons in Mayfair, and went straight to the London Palladium for the closing matinee of Evita. Before the show, we scurried across the street into Hyde Park, taking in the unparalleled views before heading inside.
 
It was the final day of Rachel Zegler’s dazzling, 12-week summer run, and the atmosphere inside the theater felt electric with anticipation. 

The show itself was extraordinary, but the most unforgettable moment came when Zegler stepped outside onto the makeshift balcony—an audacious choice by director Jamie Lloyd that transformed “Don’t Cry for Me Argentina” into a living, breathing moment of history.
 
From our seats, we watched the livestream of her addressing the masses below; it felt as though we were watching old news footage from the real Casa Rosada, waiting for Evita to emerge and speak directly to “her people.”

The performance inside the Palladium was equally thrilling—the inventive staging stripped away excess and brought raw intensity to the story, with a sleek, modern design that let the music and movement take center stage. The energy on stage was electric, every performer giving their all, and Zegler delivered a performance so powerful and nuanced that it left us both moved and exhilarated. 

The audience leapt to its feet in a well-deserved ovation, a perfect send-off to a remarkable run.
 
Later that evening, Eric and I returned to the theater to be part of the excitement from outside, joining the sea of fans gathered for Zegler’s final balcony scene. The energy was absolutely electric, and as her voice soared into the London night, I felt as if I were part of theater history—witnessing not just a performance, but a bold reimagining of a classic that will be remembered for years to come.

Rupert Street: A London Homecoming

Eric and I pushed ourselves to stay awake that first day and made our way toward Rupert Street Bar to toast our London arrival. Along the walk, we stumbled onto a scene straight out of a Warner Brothers backlot: Miss Bea Haven, the beloved Palm Springs drag performer (Paul Torrigino), resplendent in full Endora-from-Bewitched regalia, chatting with my favorite London talent, Heidi Liscious (Robbie John Dean)

Heidi was a vision—dressed in a light pink camisole with a tulle overlay that created the effect of a high-waisted skirt—her outfit playfully adorned with stuffed Hello Kitty dolls. A matching pink visor perched on her head as if she’d just stepped off the tennis court, while pink sneakers completed the ensemble.
 
A longtime DJ at Rupert Street and a fixture of the city’s nightlife, Heidi asked us to escort her to the club where she was spinning that evening. And so, the four of us strolled together down the cobblestone street—a riot of color and sparkle, waving to strangers and drawing smiles as we passed. It was an unexpected, joyful moment that made London feel alive and welcoming, even after a sleepless night.

We found ourselves back at Rupert Street several times that week. Its central location, just steps from the Soho Houses we frequent in London, made it an easy choice. The bar itself is relaxed and unpretentious—more neighborhood hangout than high-gloss club—reminding us of the kind of spot we’d happily slip into back home in Chelsea.

Bankside Evenings: Friends, Views, and History

Between work and conference obligations, we also made time to break bread with longtime UK friends, and even one of our besties from New York who was in London for a few months working on scenic design projects. We gathered with four of our favorite London locals—each of whom we’d first met during their stints in New York—for dinner at Adam and David’s new apartment in Bankside, near Elephant and Castle.

The apartment was spacious by London standards, with a palatial deck offering captivating rooftop views. Looking south, you could see Elephant and Castle, while a 360-degree turn revealed the Thames, the Shard—London’s 95-story glass skyscraper and the tallest building in the UK—and the “big three” churches: St. Paul’s Cathedral, Westminster Abbey, and Southwark Cathedral.
 
We grabbed dinner in the neighborhood, where restaurants abound at the base of their building, and then enjoyed dessert in the form of a guided walk from David, who took us through the southeastern edge of medieval London—now firmly in the middle of everything. 

Our tour ended at “The Clink,” the notorious medieval prison that operated from 1144 to 1780, before we ducked into a local pub to toast the night.

Catching Up Over Brunch at The Hero

The next day, we met up with two more of our British friends, Dane and Adam, for brunch at The Hero in the Maida Vale/Little Venice area. The pub has two personalities: downstairs, “The Pub” offers a relaxed, casual setting for dining and drinks—where Eric and I grabbed a beer outside and enjoyed the people-watching—while upstairs, the Grill Room serves a more refined menu. 

While waiting for the boys to arrive, we were delighted to reconnect with Haben Tesfamariam, who now manages “The Pub.” We first knew Haben from his time at the Chiltern Firehouse, just around the corner from our flat in Marylebone, which unfortunately had to close this past Valentine’s Day after a fire caused by burning wood from the pizza oven. It was wonderful to see that staff from the Firehouse had found new opportunities while repairs are underway.

As for brunch, we did what we do best—over-ordered and over-indulged—but the time together was absolutely worth it. Sharing a meal and catching up with friends you’ve known for years, picking up as if no time has passed, is the truest sign of friendship. The afternoon was simply terrific.

London Moments with Women Who Inspire

In addition to catching up with the London chaps, I was grateful for time with several of my dearest lady friends. A real highlight was spending time with Dame Karen Pierce, the former UK Ambassador to the United States. I’ve known Karen for many years—we first crossed paths at the UN in New York—and I’ve always admired her sharp insight and approachable style. 

I also reconnected with Maggie Berry OBE, a great friend since our days in Dublin, when we co-presented on The 30% Club Ireland’s mission of achieving at least 30% gender balance at senior decision-making tables.
 
I was lucky, too, to see my friend Reshma Sheikh, Managing Director of MSDUK, the UK’s leading supplier diversity organization. Her leadership in inclusive procurement is especially timely with the UK’s new Procurement Act of 2023, which is reshaping opportunities for suppliers of all sizes.

I also spent time with Elizabeth Vazquez, CEO and Co-Founder of WEConnect International. Elizabeth is not only a global leader in women’s economic empowerment, she’s also a very special friend—I’m fortunate to see her often, whether while traveling or back in the States, where I have the honor of serving on her board.
 
And finally, a friend who always makes me smile is Carla Preston from Amazon; her warm, giving personality makes every moment in her company uplifting.

Sparkle, Sequins, and Chosen Family: Evenings with Scott in London

Although there were many standout moments during our short trip to London, the most special were those spent with our dear friend Scott Pask—a part of our chosen family who, like us, lives in New York but also keeps a home in Arizona. Our evenings together were filled with drinks and dinners, including a night out with our buddy Shen (who I often forget actually lives in London, since we seem to bump into him all over the world), and a visit to Soho House Mews. 

The Mews is one of those tucked-away London gems—a members’ club reserved for those who’ve been part of the Soho House family for at least ten years. With its townhouse charm and intimate feel, it offers longtime members and their guests a more secret, hidden side of the Soho House world.
 
And then there was Scott’s latest show, The Producers, which was one of the most heartwarming and soul-enriching experiences of the trip. We first saw The Producers back in 2001 with Nathan Lane and Matthew Broderick, but the London staging surpassed anything I’d seen before—cleverly staged, perfectly cast, and laugh-out-loud funny. 

Scott’s set design tied it all together, playful and inventive in ways that made each scene sparkle. And I mean sparkle quite literally—the costumes were a dazzling riot of sequins, feathers, and over-the-top glamour, from shimmering chorus lines to outrageous character ensembles that had the audience laughing before a single line was spoken.


The True Treasure of Travel: People, Places, and Memories

As I look back on those whirlwind days in London—filled with theater, laughter, long dinners, and the kind of conversations that nourish the soul—I’m reminded of how lucky I am to live a life threaded together by such extraordinary people and places. Each encounter, whether with old friends or unexpected moments of joy on the streets of Soho, reaffirmed for me that the true magic of travel lies not only in the destinations, but in the connections we carry and the memories we create together. September may have been a blur of planes, panels, and parties, but it was also a reminder to pause, savor, and celebrate the beauty of community, wherever in the world we may find it. And with so many more September happenings still to share, this is just the beginning of the story.


by Dr. William Kapfer
Katherine Woodward Ramer | Guessing Headlights  Oct 7
5 MIN READ

Culpeper, Virginia, offers couples, families, and friends a small-town escape straight out of a feel-good movie.

Culpeper, Virginia, offers couples, families, and friends a small-town escape straight out of a feel-good movie.

by Katherine Woodward Ramer | Guessing Headlights

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The Government of Canada has cautioned citizens holding passports with a gender-neutral ‘X’ marker that they may encounter difficulties when entering the United States.

The Canadian government has issued a travel advisory warning that citizens holding passports with a gender-neutral ‘X’ marker may face problems at the United States border. The caution comes amid heightened concerns about varying recognition of gender markers across national boundaries and shifting U.S. federal policies affecting transgender and non-binary travelers .

G-A-Y Bar, a cornerstone of London’s LGBTQ+ nightlife, will soon close its doors, according to owner Jeremy Joseph, who delivered an emotional statement reflecting on decades of community, activism, and celebration.

The iconic G-A-Y Bar, a staple of London’s LGBTQ+ nightlife for more than two decades, will soon cease operations, owner Jeremy Joseph confirmed in a heartfelt public statement this week. The venue, located on Old Compton Street in Soho, has been a vital hub for the city’s queer community, hosting generations of revelers, activists, and allies since its opening in 1996 .

The UK government’s announcement of a compulsory digital ID, known as the ‘Brit Card,’ has ignited widespread concern among transgender people and LGBTQ+ advocates, who fear the scheme could compromise privacy and force unwanted disclosure of gender histo

The UK government, led by Prime Minister Sir Keir Starmer, formally announced plans to introduce a nationwide mandatory digital identification system for all working adults on 25 September 2025. The proposed 'Brit Card' will serve as a digital credential stored on smartphones, intended to verify identity, right to work, and access to public services. Officials assert that the scheme aims to tackle illegal migration and streamline bureaucratic processes, positioning it as an “important part” of what Starmer calls “patriotic renewal” for the country .

After two years of closure and extensive renovations, San Francisco’s historic Castro Theatre will reopen its doors in February 2026.

San Francisco’s Castro Theatre, a century-old architectural and cultural icon at the heart of the city’s LGBTQ+ community, is set to reopen in February 2026 after a two-year closure for extensive renovations. The announcement has been met with excitement and anticipation by residents, business owners, and queer communities locally and beyond, marking a significant moment in the ongoing story of one of America’s most storied LGBTQ+ spaces .