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Norway stands out as one of the world’s most LGBTQ+ inclusive destinations, blending progressive rights with stunning natural beauty and vibrant city culture.

Norway, celebrated for its dramatic fjords, northern lights, and rich cultural tapestry, is equally notable for its unwavering commitment to LGBTQ+ equality. Ranking consistently among the top ten most LGBTQ+-friendly countries globally, Norway offers both historic milestones and a contemporary ethos of inclusion, making it a premier destination for queer travelers seeking both adventure and acceptance .

Norway’s progressive legal framework provides a solid foundation for LGBTQ+ visitors. Same-sex marriage has been recognized since 2009, with equal rights granted in areas including adoption, assisted pregnancies, and church weddings . Discrimination based on sexual orientation and gender identity is strictly prohibited, with robust anti-discrimination laws in place since the 1980s . The country’s inclusive policies have fostered a society where most venues—cafés, hotels, museums, bars—are welcoming to all, regardless of identity .

Oslo, Norway’s capital and largest city, is a dynamic urban hub where queer life flourishes. The city’s main gay district, Grünerløkka, is famed for its eclectic mix of LGBTQ+-friendly bars, clubs, and restaurants . Popular venues include the longstanding London Pub and Elsker, both of which regularly host drag shows, themed parties, and live performances .

Oslo Pride is the country’s largest LGBTQ+ festival, drawing thousands for ten days of concerts, art exhibitions, debates, and parties, culminating in a vibrant parade through the city . The festival not only celebrates diversity but also foregrounds human rights and queer culture, ensuring visitors feel both welcomed and inspired.

For those interested in art and history, the city offers highlights such as the Munch Museum, the National Gallery, and the striking modernist Opera House, all easily accessible and inclusive for LGBTQ+ travelers .

Bergen, Norway’s second-largest city, is renowned for its picturesque harbor, mountain backdrops, and a unique Pride spirit that thrives regardless of weather. Regnbuedagene (Rainbow Days), the city’s annual Pride festival, is recognized for its grassroots approach—eschewing large corporate floats for a more community-driven, joyous march where locals and visitors celebrate side by side .

The city’s only dedicated queer bar, Fincken, is emblematic of Bergen’s inclusive ethos: rather than segregating LGBTQ+ spaces, most establishments are open and welcoming by default . Each June, the city center comes alive with rainbow flags, public art installations, and a parade that weaves through the historic streets, undeterred by rain—a symbol of Norway’s resilient and joyful queer community.

For adventurous travelers, Tromsø offers a singular opportunity: Arctic Pride. Held in November, this event draws locals and visitors together for a week of festivities under the polar night, as the city is bathed in the magical glow of the northern lights . The city’s queer-friendly pubs, bars, and social venues, including Studentsamfunnet Driv (the student union), Storgata Camping, and Bastard Bar, provide warm, welcoming spaces to escape the Arctic chill. The festival’s unique atmosphere—think rainbow flags against a snowy backdrop—makes it a must-experience for those seeking something different in the global Pride calendar.

Norway’s LGBTQ+ nightlife scene is concentrated in its larger cities but remains accessible and inclusive nationwide. In Oslo, besides London Pub and Elsker, travelers can join guided LGBTQ+ city tours offering both historical insights and a safe introduction to the local scene . In Bergen and Trondheim, while there are fewer explicitly “queer” bars, the culture of openness means travelers rarely need to seek out designated safe spaces—most venues operate with inclusive policies .

Travel Tips for LGBTQ+ Visitors

- Safety and Comfort: Norway is widely regarded as safe for LGBTQ+ travelers. Queerphobic incidents are rare, and police and emergency services are trained to respond sensitively to LGBTQ+ needs .

- Language and Etiquette: English is widely spoken, and Norwegians are known for their politeness and respect for privacy, making it easy for visitors to navigate both city life and rural adventures .

- Gender Inclusivity: Non-binary and transgender travelers will find a supportive environment, with gender-neutral facilities available in many public spaces .

Norway’s natural wonders—fjords, mountains, midnight sun, and the northern lights—are open to all. LGBTQ+ travelers can join organized tours, many of which are committed to inclusivity, or explore independently. The ethos of “alle er velkommen” (everyone is welcome) permeates even the most remote destinations, from hiking in Lofoten to kayaking near Geirangerfjord .

Norwegian LGBTQ+ leaders and activists emphasize the importance of both celebrating progress and acknowledging ongoing work for equality. Inge Alexander Gjestvang, leader of FRI (The Norwegian Organization for Sexual and Gender Diversity), notes: “It is important to look back with gratitude to those who pushed through that change in the law. Because it was hard work, and still is today. We need to continue to keep up the pressure” .

Locals echo the sentiment that Norway’s inclusivity is not just legal, but lived: “I find that Norway is very good at making most things available to everyone. I rarely look up safe places to go, because most places are,” says Majken Helén Evensen, Oslo Pride volunteer .

For LGBTQ+ travelers seeking a destination where rights, safety, and celebration go hand in hand, Norway offers a model of progressive inclusivity. Whether you’re dancing at Oslo Pride, marching through the rain in Bergen, or watching the aurora borealis at Arctic Pride, you’ll find a travel experience that is as welcoming as it is unforgettable.

Curaçao, a vibrant Caribbean island, is fast becoming an emerging destination for LGBTQ+ travelers seeking inclusivity and authenticity.

In recent years, the Caribbean has seen a gradual shift toward greater acceptance of LGBTQ+ identities, but few islands have embraced this change as openly or joyously as Curaçao. Once overshadowed by more prominent destinations, Curaçao is now gaining international attention as a queer-friendly hotspot, thanks in large part to legal advances and a passionate, visible local LGBTQ+ community. In 2024, Curaçao made international headlines by legalizing same-sex marriage, a landmark move that reflects the island’s growing commitment to equality and inclusion for all.

RU5H, a new all-gay, trans-inclusive travel and lifestyle brand, made its debut at San Francisco's Folsom Street Fair in September 2025, announcing plans for kink-minded cruises, resort takeovers, and fetish events.

A bold new player has entered the LGBTQ+ travel market with an explicitly sex-positive mission. RU5H, billing itself as an "all-gay, all-male travel and lifestyle brand," announced its launch with a provocative activation at the Folsom Street Fair on September 28, 2025, promising to deliver "unapologetically sex-progressive vacations" that combine kink culture with luxury travel experiences .

Queer Scout, a new tour service in Medellín, Colombia, is offering specialized experiences for LGBTQ+ travelers, including bar crawls, cultural tours, and guided excursions to nearby destinations.

Medellín, Colombia, has emerged as a dynamic destination for LGBTQ+ travelers seeking authentic cultural experiences combined with vibrant nightlife, and a newly-launched tour service is working to make the city more accessible to queer visitors from around the world. Queer Scout, which began operations in 2024, offers a range of specialized tours and experiences designed specifically for LGBTQ+ travelers exploring Colombia's second-largest city .

Ben Rice | Guessing Headlights  Oct 9
7 MIN READ

While some may mourn the end of summer, others love the arrival of fall. Gentle sunshine, crisp mornings, and dramatic skyscapes make for one of the Northern Hemisphere’s most beautiful seasons. However, while some lament the early nightfall and frost on their car windscreens, others are planning road trips and, quite possibly, train journeys.

While some may mourn the end of summer, others love the arrival of fall. Gentle sunshine, crisp mornings, and dramatic skyscapes make for one of the Northern Hemisphere’s most beautiful seasons. However, while some lament the early nightfall and frost on their car windscreens, others are planning road trips and, quite possibly, train journeys.

by Ben Rice | Guessing Headlights

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Mike Householder  Oct 8
3 MIN READ

A suburban Detroit haunted house prepares its scare actors for the Halloween season by sending them to school

Grotesque makeup, menacing props and intimidating costumes are just one part of a Michigan haunted house's 25-year-old formula to terrify guests.

by Mike Householder

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Dr. William Kapfer  Oct 7
1 MIN READ

As I look back on those whirlwind days in London—filled with theater, laughter, long dinners, and the kind of conversations that nourish the soul—I’m reminded of how lucky I am to live a life threaded together by such extraordinary people and places.

September came and went in a blur of planes, parties, and performances—so much so that I found myself off the grid when it came to writing my column. With a month this packed, one piece simply won’t do it justice. I have so many adventures to share that I’ll need three columns in a row just to cover September.
 
Instead of spanning coast to coast and across the globe all at once, this edition focuses solely on our London trip—a whirlwind packed with theater, friends, community impact, and unexpected encounters. London deserves its own spotlight, while my next installments will take you back across the pond and on to the rest of September’s adventures in Phoenix, Tucson, Atlanta, and beyond. And with the city in the grip of a tube strike that week, we experienced London above ground—on foot, by bus, and by cab—giving every outing its own sense of adventure and discovery.

From New York to London for Evita’s Last Curtain

Eric and I boarded a red-eye out of Newark—hardly the most reliable airport in the area, but for overnight flights to London, it offers the widest selection. It was the kind of flight where the anticipation of what awaited us across the Atlantic made sleep elusive. After more than a year and a half of commuting back and forth to the UK, we’ve found our rhythm on United’s Polaris service: dinner in the lounge before boarding, just a light snack on the plane, and always saving room for the ice cream sundae cart (extra hot fudge, please). A movie, a sip of Baileys, and a decaf cappuccino set the perfect stage for a little dozing before wheels down in London.
 
We landed on the morning of September 6th, dropped our bags at the Four Seasons in Mayfair, and went straight to the London Palladium for the closing matinee of Evita. Before the show, we scurried across the street into Hyde Park, taking in the unparalleled views before heading inside.
 
It was the final day of Rachel Zegler’s dazzling, 12-week summer run, and the atmosphere inside the theater felt electric with anticipation. 

The show itself was extraordinary, but the most unforgettable moment came when Zegler stepped outside onto the makeshift balcony—an audacious choice by director Jamie Lloyd that transformed “Don’t Cry for Me Argentina” into a living, breathing moment of history.
 
From our seats, we watched the livestream of her addressing the masses below; it felt as though we were watching old news footage from the real Casa Rosada, waiting for Evita to emerge and speak directly to “her people.”

The performance inside the Palladium was equally thrilling—the inventive staging stripped away excess and brought raw intensity to the story, with a sleek, modern design that let the music and movement take center stage. The energy on stage was electric, every performer giving their all, and Zegler delivered a performance so powerful and nuanced that it left us both moved and exhilarated. 

The audience leapt to its feet in a well-deserved ovation, a perfect send-off to a remarkable run.
 
Later that evening, Eric and I returned to the theater to be part of the excitement from outside, joining the sea of fans gathered for Zegler’s final balcony scene. The energy was absolutely electric, and as her voice soared into the London night, I felt as if I were part of theater history—witnessing not just a performance, but a bold reimagining of a classic that will be remembered for years to come.

Rupert Street: A London Homecoming

Eric and I pushed ourselves to stay awake that first day and made our way toward Rupert Street Bar to toast our London arrival. Along the walk, we stumbled onto a scene straight out of a Warner Brothers backlot: Miss Bea Haven, the beloved Palm Springs drag performer (Paul Torrigino), resplendent in full Endora-from-Bewitched regalia, chatting with my favorite London talent, Heidi Liscious (Robbie John Dean)

Heidi was a vision—dressed in a light pink camisole with a tulle overlay that created the effect of a high-waisted skirt—her outfit playfully adorned with stuffed Hello Kitty dolls. A matching pink visor perched on her head as if she’d just stepped off the tennis court, while pink sneakers completed the ensemble.
 
A longtime DJ at Rupert Street and a fixture of the city’s nightlife, Heidi asked us to escort her to the club where she was spinning that evening. And so, the four of us strolled together down the cobblestone street—a riot of color and sparkle, waving to strangers and drawing smiles as we passed. It was an unexpected, joyful moment that made London feel alive and welcoming, even after a sleepless night.

We found ourselves back at Rupert Street several times that week. Its central location, just steps from the Soho Houses we frequent in London, made it an easy choice. The bar itself is relaxed and unpretentious—more neighborhood hangout than high-gloss club—reminding us of the kind of spot we’d happily slip into back home in Chelsea.

Bankside Evenings: Friends, Views, and History

Between work and conference obligations, we also made time to break bread with longtime UK friends, and even one of our besties from New York who was in London for a few months working on scenic design projects. We gathered with four of our favorite London locals—each of whom we’d first met during their stints in New York—for dinner at Adam and David’s new apartment in Bankside, near Elephant and Castle.

The apartment was spacious by London standards, with a palatial deck offering captivating rooftop views. Looking south, you could see Elephant and Castle, while a 360-degree turn revealed the Thames, the Shard—London’s 95-story glass skyscraper and the tallest building in the UK—and the “big three” churches: St. Paul’s Cathedral, Westminster Abbey, and Southwark Cathedral.
 
We grabbed dinner in the neighborhood, where restaurants abound at the base of their building, and then enjoyed dessert in the form of a guided walk from David, who took us through the southeastern edge of medieval London—now firmly in the middle of everything. 

Our tour ended at “The Clink,” the notorious medieval prison that operated from 1144 to 1780, before we ducked into a local pub to toast the night.

Catching Up Over Brunch at The Hero

The next day, we met up with two more of our British friends, Dane and Adam, for brunch at The Hero in the Maida Vale/Little Venice area. The pub has two personalities: downstairs, “The Pub” offers a relaxed, casual setting for dining and drinks—where Eric and I grabbed a beer outside and enjoyed the people-watching—while upstairs, the Grill Room serves a more refined menu. 

While waiting for the boys to arrive, we were delighted to reconnect with Haben Tesfamariam, who now manages “The Pub.” We first knew Haben from his time at the Chiltern Firehouse, just around the corner from our flat in Marylebone, which unfortunately had to close this past Valentine’s Day after a fire caused by burning wood from the pizza oven. It was wonderful to see that staff from the Firehouse had found new opportunities while repairs are underway.

As for brunch, we did what we do best—over-ordered and over-indulged—but the time together was absolutely worth it. Sharing a meal and catching up with friends you’ve known for years, picking up as if no time has passed, is the truest sign of friendship. The afternoon was simply terrific.

London Moments with Women Who Inspire

In addition to catching up with the London chaps, I was grateful for time with several of my dearest lady friends. A real highlight was spending time with Dame Karen Pierce, the former UK Ambassador to the United States. I’ve known Karen for many years—we first crossed paths at the UN in New York—and I’ve always admired her sharp insight and approachable style. 

I also reconnected with Maggie Berry OBE, a great friend since our days in Dublin, when we co-presented on The 30% Club Ireland’s mission of achieving at least 30% gender balance at senior decision-making tables.
 
I was lucky, too, to see my friend Reshma Sheikh, Managing Director of MSDUK, the UK’s leading supplier diversity organization. Her leadership in inclusive procurement is especially timely with the UK’s new Procurement Act of 2023, which is reshaping opportunities for suppliers of all sizes.

I also spent time with Elizabeth Vazquez, CEO and Co-Founder of WEConnect International. Elizabeth is not only a global leader in women’s economic empowerment, she’s also a very special friend—I’m fortunate to see her often, whether while traveling or back in the States, where I have the honor of serving on her board.
 
And finally, a friend who always makes me smile is Carla Preston from Amazon; her warm, giving personality makes every moment in her company uplifting.

Sparkle, Sequins, and Chosen Family: Evenings with Scott in London

Although there were many standout moments during our short trip to London, the most special were those spent with our dear friend Scott Pask—a part of our chosen family who, like us, lives in New York but also keeps a home in Arizona. Our evenings together were filled with drinks and dinners, including a night out with our buddy Shen (who I often forget actually lives in London, since we seem to bump into him all over the world), and a visit to Soho House Mews. 

The Mews is one of those tucked-away London gems—a members’ club reserved for those who’ve been part of the Soho House family for at least ten years. With its townhouse charm and intimate feel, it offers longtime members and their guests a more secret, hidden side of the Soho House world.
 
And then there was Scott’s latest show, The Producers, which was one of the most heartwarming and soul-enriching experiences of the trip. We first saw The Producers back in 2001 with Nathan Lane and Matthew Broderick, but the London staging surpassed anything I’d seen before—cleverly staged, perfectly cast, and laugh-out-loud funny. 

Scott’s set design tied it all together, playful and inventive in ways that made each scene sparkle. And I mean sparkle quite literally—the costumes were a dazzling riot of sequins, feathers, and over-the-top glamour, from shimmering chorus lines to outrageous character ensembles that had the audience laughing before a single line was spoken.


The True Treasure of Travel: People, Places, and Memories

As I look back on those whirlwind days in London—filled with theater, laughter, long dinners, and the kind of conversations that nourish the soul—I’m reminded of how lucky I am to live a life threaded together by such extraordinary people and places. Each encounter, whether with old friends or unexpected moments of joy on the streets of Soho, reaffirmed for me that the true magic of travel lies not only in the destinations, but in the connections we carry and the memories we create together. September may have been a blur of planes, panels, and parties, but it was also a reminder to pause, savor, and celebrate the beauty of community, wherever in the world we may find it. And with so many more September happenings still to share, this is just the beginning of the story.


by Dr. William Kapfer
Katherine Woodward Ramer | Guessing Headlights  Oct 7
5 MIN READ

Culpeper, Virginia, offers couples, families, and friends a small-town escape straight out of a feel-good movie.

Culpeper, Virginia, offers couples, families, and friends a small-town escape straight out of a feel-good movie.

by Katherine Woodward Ramer | Guessing Headlights

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The Government of Canada has cautioned citizens holding passports with a gender-neutral ‘X’ marker that they may encounter difficulties when entering the United States.

The Canadian government has issued a travel advisory warning that citizens holding passports with a gender-neutral ‘X’ marker may face problems at the United States border. The caution comes amid heightened concerns about varying recognition of gender markers across national boundaries and shifting U.S. federal policies affecting transgender and non-binary travelers .

G-A-Y Bar, a cornerstone of London’s LGBTQ+ nightlife, will soon close its doors, according to owner Jeremy Joseph, who delivered an emotional statement reflecting on decades of community, activism, and celebration.

The iconic G-A-Y Bar, a staple of London’s LGBTQ+ nightlife for more than two decades, will soon cease operations, owner Jeremy Joseph confirmed in a heartfelt public statement this week. The venue, located on Old Compton Street in Soho, has been a vital hub for the city’s queer community, hosting generations of revelers, activists, and allies since its opening in 1996 .