A new global study has ranked the best cities for gay cruising in 2025, revealing a dynamic landscape shaped by history, community, and resilience.
In 2025, the landscape for gay cruising—defined as seeking casual encounters in public spaces like parks, saunas, and clubs—remains as vital as ever to LGBTQ+ culture and community. The latest Global Gay Cruising Index, compiled by Erobella, ranks cities worldwide based on the vibrancy and diversity of their cruising offerings, including saunas, cruising clubs, gay bars, and public parks. The results highlight not only where men are meeting but also the enduring importance of these spaces for connection and solidarity .
- London leads with 29 out of 40 points, excelling in opportunities for meeting in public parks and boasting a thriving sauna and gay bar scene. Hampstead Heath, particularly its West Heath corner, remains one of the world’s most legendary cruising grounds, offering a unique blend of anonymity and camaraderie for men seeking connection after dark .
- Berlin follows with 26 points, renowned for its historic Tiergarten park and iconic fetish and cruising clubs. The Tiergarten, especially around Bremer Weg lake, has been a symbol of queer resilience since the Weimar Republic, providing safe haven and social space even through political upheaval .
- Paris earns 25 points with its high density of gay saunas and bathhouses, many of which double as social hubs for the city’s diverse LGBTQ+ community .
- Madrid and Barcelona round out the top five, each known for their vibrant club scenes and, in Madrid’s case, the legendary Casa de Campo park—an expansive, wooded space that transforms at night into a discreet meeting ground for men .
Behind these rankings is a history shaped by the HIV/AIDS crisis of the 1980s. While many American cities shuttered bathhouses under pressure from moralistic policies, European cities often repurposed their saunas and cruising venues as centers for sexual health education and community support. This difference in approach has left Europe with a more robust and varied cruising culture today .
Though the U.S. lags behind Europe in the index, several cities continue to offer dynamic cruising scenes for gay men. New York stands out as the top U.S. destination, followed by San Francisco, Chicago, Miami, and Los Angeles .
- New York scores highest among U.S. cities, thanks to its concentration of gay bars and remaining bathhouses. The city’s cruising scene is centered around established venues and select public spaces, though the closure of many bathhouses during the 1980s left a lasting impact .
- San Francisco, once famed for its bathhouse culture, has struggled to recover fully since the crisis, but select clubs and parks—such as Buena Vista Park—remain active gathering points .
- Chicago, Miami, and Los Angeles also feature on the list, each with their own mix of clubs, bars, and occasional public cruising spots, though all fall short of their European counterparts in terms of variety and accessibility .
The lower scores for U.S. cities are attributed largely to the enduring effects of the 1980s, when closures and public health fears led to a contraction of queer spaces. Today, American cruising venues often prioritize privacy and security, reflecting both the country’s legal climate and the legacy of past traumas .
Beyond the rankings, cruising venues have long functioned as more than just sites for sexual encounters. For many, these spaces offer rare opportunities to build community, share resources, and find support—especially for men from smaller towns or less accepting environments. In cities like London, Berlin, and New York, cruising grounds are informal community centers, places where social boundaries dissolve and new connections form .
Different types of venues cater to different needs:
- Public parks (e.g., Hampstead Heath, Tiergarten, Casa de Campo) provide anonymity and adventure, often attracting diverse crowds.
- Saunas and bathhouses offer privacy and safety, frequently doubling as cultural hubs with events, health resources, and social programming .
- Cruising clubs and bars blend nightlife with opportunity, offering structured environments for those seeking connections.
Despite occasional risks—ranging from police crackdowns to personal security concerns—these spaces persist as vital threads in the fabric of LGBTQ+ urban life .
While the appeal of cruising lies in spontaneity and freedom, it is essential to approach these spaces with awareness and respect. Many parks and clubs post clear guidelines on consent, safe sex, and respectful behavior. Local LGBTQ+ organizations frequently offer resources on safety, including how to avoid legal risks and handle unwanted encounters .
Travelers are encouraged to research local laws and customs before engaging and to prioritize mutual respect in every interaction. In the era of digital connection, many men also use apps to coordinate encounters, blending online and offline cruising cultures .
The 2025 rankings serve as both a travel guide and a testament to the strength of LGBTQ+ communities worldwide. As cities continue to evolve, cruising venues remain crucial not only for casual connection but for fostering belonging, solidarity, and resilience. Whether in the thickets of Hampstead Heath or the neon-lit bars of New York, these spaces are a reminder: queer joy, love, and liberation will always find a way.
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Each December, Prague takes on a distinctive holiday glow, its historic center illuminated by festive lights and the scent of mulled wine. The city’s Christmas markets, especially those in Old Town Square and Wenceslas Square, are often the first stop for visitors, and rightly so.
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Tulum, Mexico, offers queer travelers a unique blend of laid-back beaches, a welcoming LGBTQ+ community, and a growing array of inclusive spaces—from the vibrant Red Room bar to the clothing-optional Loba Tulum guesthouse.
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Philadelphia is set to make history in January 2026 with the grand opening of the Philly Pride Visitor Center at 12th and Locust streets in the heart of the city’s Gayborhood. The initiative, orchestrated by the Philadelphia Visitor Center and Visit Philadelphia, is designed to coincide with a landmark year featuring the 250th anniversary of the signing of the Declaration of Independence, as well as global sporting events such as the FIFA World Cup and the MLB All-Star Game. The center will serve as both a practical resource for travelers and a testament to the city’s legacy of LGBTQ+ activism and resilience .
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Charleston, South Carolina, has emerged as a beacon for LGBTQ+ travelers seeking authentic Southern hospitality alongside vibrant queer culture. With its storied past, walkable streets, and dedication to inclusion, Charleston offers a range of experiences—historic tours, lively nightlife, and powerful community events—that make it a must-visit for queer individuals and allies alike. This guide explores the key facets of LGBTQ+ Charleston, with verified resources and voices from the community.
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Davey Wavey Charts a New Course: Frog Meadow’s Legacy Thrives Under New Ownership
Davey Wavey, known for his pioneering work in LGBTQ+ media and sex-positive education, has acquired Frog Meadow, New England’s renowned gay resort in southern Vermont.
Frog Meadow, a celebrated bed-and-breakfast and men’s retreat in southern Vermont, has long been regarded as a haven for gay men seeking connection, relaxation, and community. After nearly two decades of passionate stewardship, founders Scott and Dave have announced their retirement and the sale of Frog Meadow to David Jacques—better known to millions as Davey Wavey—a move that signals both continuity and transformation for this cherished LGBTQ+ space .
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A German museum has been unexpectedly overrun by Taylor Swift fans because one of its paintings bears a striking resemblance to the opening scene of Swift’s current No. 1 hit video, “The Fate of Ophelia.”
A German museum has been unexpectedly overrun by Taylor Swift fans because one of its paintings bears a striking resemblance to the opening scene of Swift’s current No. 1 hit video, “The Fate of Ophelia.”
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While once the Faroe Islands might have slipped under the radar, more tourists than ever are arriving on the remote archipelago in the north Atlantic.
While once the Faroe Islands might have slipped under the radar, more tourists than ever are arriving on the remote archipelago in the north Atlantic.
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For many in the queer community, Frog Meadow has stood as more than just a resort: it is a living legacy, a safe space where men have gathered for workshops, wellness retreats, and the simple joys of companionship. Scott and Dave’s announcement, delivered with heartfelt gratitude and optimism, underscores their dedication to ensuring that the property remains an “oasis for men”—not just in name, but in spirit .
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Davey Wavey, whose media work has centered on sex-positive education, body acceptance, and queer empowerment, is no stranger to Frog Meadow. Having first visited in 2008, Wavey has cultivated a deep relationship with the space and its founders, collaborating on Himeros.tv projects that have brought together diverse voices in the celebration of erotic wellness .
In a statement following the acquisition, Wavey described Frog Meadow as his “favorite place on earth,” a sanctuary offering balance, connection, and beauty in a chaotic world. “Dreams do come true,” he wrote, expressing gratitude for the opportunity to steward the property and nurture its legacy for years to come . The new owner’s commitment is clear: Frog Meadow will remain a safe and inclusive space, continuing to welcome guests and host workshops designed for queer men.
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The transition is being managed thoughtfully, with Scott and Dave staying on through October 30, 2025 to ensure business as usual. All current reservations, credits, and gift certificates will be honored, and key staff members—including Assistant Innkeeper Jay and Guest Services Associate Ben—will remain part of the team . Frog Meadow will re-open for the 2026 season on April 21, operating year-round and continuing its much-loved programming.
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Central to Frog Meadow’s identity are its workshops and retreats, which have offered participants opportunities for personal growth, sexual wellness, and spiritual connection. The upcoming calendar includes events such as “Nourishing Male Vitality Through Tantra and Touch,” led by certified professionals and tailored to the needs of queer men . These programs cover a wide spectrum—from bodywork and massage to discussions of intimacy, mindfulness, and healthy relationships .
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Participants consistently praise Frog Meadow for its atmosphere of camaraderie and acceptance, describing their stays as “relaxed, rejuvenated, and recharged” . The retreat’s commitment to body, mind, and spirit is evident not only in its programming, but in its approach to hospitality: every guest is welcomed as part of a larger community, and the space itself is designed to foster safety, comfort, and meaningful connection.
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With Wavey at the helm, guests can expect the continuation—and evolution—of these offerings, including collaborations with Himeros.tv and other partners in queer wellness and entertainment . The property’s website and booking system remain open, with special promotions marking the transition and encouraging new and returning guests to experience Vermont’s “gay oasis” .
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Frog Meadow’s story is emblematic of the broader movement toward LGBTQ+ affirming travel and hospitality. As queer spaces face pressures from commercialization and shifting social norms, the preservation of dedicated sanctuaries like Frog Meadow takes on renewed importance. The founders’ multi-year plan for succession, rooted in a commitment to community stewardship, reflects a deep understanding of the challenges and opportunities facing LGBTQ+ retreat spaces .
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Wavey’s acquisition is noteworthy not only for its personal significance, but for its potential impact. As a media figure who has championed sex positivity, queer joy, and holistic wellness, Wavey brings a unique perspective to the role of innkeeper. His stewardship promises to balance the traditions of Frog Meadow with new approaches to programming, outreach, and community engagement .
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Looking ahead, Frog Meadow will continue to serve as a model for inclusive, affirming travel, offering workshops, events, and hospitality tailored to the needs of gay, bisexual, and transgender men. The property’s legacy—built over 19 years of service—will endure and evolve, guided by a new generation of leadership committed to nurturing queer wellness and community .
As Frog Meadow enters its next chapter under Davey Wavey’s ownership, the retreat stands poised to remain a cornerstone of queer men’s wellness, connection, and celebration. Guided by a spirit of gratitude and purpose, the new stewardship offers guests the promise of continuity—and the excitement of new horizons in LGBTQ+ hospitality.
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Among the visitors were also many American families who are stationed at an U.S. Army base in Wiesbaden.
The Swifties’ goal: an Art Nouveau painting by Friedrich Heyser featuring Ophelia, Hamlet’s beloved in William Shakespeare’s play of the same name.
In the original play, Ophelia, a young noblewoman of Denmark, ultimately becomes mad and drowns.
Heyser’s oil-on-canvas painting presents the figure of Ophelia clad in white and surrounded by white water lilies. The painting’s exact year of creation is not known but experts believe it dates back to around 1900.
In the opening scene of the video for the hit song “The Fate of Ophelia,” Swift slips into the role of Ophelia and becomes a living painting.
The scene shows similarities to the work of Heyser, museum director Andreas Henning told German news agency dpa.
Hirschmann said the museum team recognized the resemblance earlier this month and decided to invite Swifties for a special tour next month. Once they had posted an announcement of the tour on their website, news of the Ophelia painting soon went viral online.
“We’re really enjoying this attention — it’s a lot of fun,” Hirschmann told the AP, adding that all fans showing up for the Nov. 2 tour “Taylor Swift’s ‘Ophelia’ at the Wiesbaden museum” dressed as the pop star or as “the tragic beauty Ophelia” will be able to attend the tour for free.
There’s just one problem: the tour is already completely booked, so the museum may just have to add additional tours for all art-crazed Swiftie fans.
Henning said the museum has already tried to contact the singer, but has had no success so far getting a hold of the world star. “I would love to show Taylor Swift the original painting sometime,” he said.
“We are surprised and delighted that Taylor Swift used this painting from the museum as inspiration for her video,” Henning said. “This is, of course, a great opportunity to attract people to the museum who don’t know us yet.”
The museum said it does not know for sure if the art work served as a template for Swift’s song, which is currently a No. 1 hit both in Germany and the United States.
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That’s relatively small for a European destination, but authorities are already thinking about how to protect the windswept 18 islands from the tourism pressure that has led to backlash elsewhere.
Like Greenland, the Faroes are a self-governing territory of Denmark. So far, U.S. President Donald Trump has expressed no public interest in taking control of them.
Here’s what to know about visiting.
Be ready for anything, especially when hiking. At some point, it will rain. Strong winds can pick up quickly, and fog can be disorienting.
The Landsverk local authority has weather cams on its site, and so does FaroeIslandsLive. The official Visit Faroe Islands site has detailed advice on safe travel, as locals are aware that people can slip off trails into the sea – and sometimes do.
“I will take photos to die for, without dying for them,” says a tourist-focused flier called “The Faroese Pledge” on the library door in the village of Fuglafjordur.
Trails marked as suitable for children may not be. Keep in mind that hiking times and difficulty levels have been estimated by locals. A few of the most heavily traveled routes ask for a fee. The popular hike to the Kallur lighthouse on Kalsoy Island is about $30. Do not miss it.
It’s best to explore with a rental car for more flexibility. Public buses are available to many locations, but timetables are limited. They are available at the Strandfaraskip site. Multi-day travel passes can be purchased at the airport’s visitor center.
The Faroe Islands now have four undersea tunnels linking a few of the most visited islands, but prepare to pay. Fees range from over $15 for a round trip to over $27 one way. Plan day trips accordingly. Fees are paid to the rental car company at the end of a visit.
On land, some of the older tunnels are single lanes with designated passing areas. Some of the scenic “buttercup” routes are single lanes as well. Guardrails are not always present.
On one stretch of road leaving the community of Tjornuvik, a signal has been installed to limit traffic to one direction at a time along the well-battered guardrail above the sea. Tourists don't know how to reverse, residents said.
The need for cash is almost nonexistent. The AP used it once, for a coin-operated shower in one of the public restrooms often found at camping locations or tourist-frequented villages. Pay with cards and phones.
Food is expensive, as most of it is imported.
English is widely enough spoken and displayed.
Drone use is restricted. The Visit Faroe Islands site has details.
Don’t bother the sheep. Call the police if you hit one.
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