Europe continues to set the global standard for gay cruising, thanks to a combination of progressive policies, rich LGBTQ+ histories, and resilient community spaces. The top five cities for cruising in 2025, according to the Global Gay Cruising Index, are London, Berlin, Paris, Madrid, and Barcelona .

- London leads with 29 out of 40 points, excelling in opportunities for meeting in public parks and boasting a thriving sauna and gay bar scene. Hampstead Heath, particularly its West Heath corner, remains one of the world’s most legendary cruising grounds, offering a unique blend of anonymity and camaraderie for men seeking connection after dark .

- Berlin follows with 26 points, renowned for its historic Tiergarten park and iconic fetish and cruising clubs. The Tiergarten, especially around Bremer Weg lake, has been a symbol of queer resilience since the Weimar Republic, providing safe haven and social space even through political upheaval .

- Paris earns 25 points with its high density of gay saunas and bathhouses, many of which double as social hubs for the city’s diverse LGBTQ+ community .

- Madrid and Barcelona round out the top five, each known for their vibrant club scenes and, in Madrid’s case, the legendary Casa de Campo park—an expansive, wooded space that transforms at night into a discreet meeting ground for men .

Behind these rankings is a history shaped by the HIV/AIDS crisis of the 1980s. While many American cities shuttered bathhouses under pressure from moralistic policies, European cities often repurposed their saunas and cruising venues as centers for sexual health education and community support. This difference in approach has left Europe with a more robust and varied cruising culture today .

Though the U.S. lags behind Europe in the index, several cities continue to offer dynamic cruising scenes for gay men. New York stands out as the top U.S. destination, followed by San Francisco, Chicago, Miami, and Los Angeles .

- New York scores highest among U.S. cities, thanks to its concentration of gay bars and remaining bathhouses. The city’s cruising scene is centered around established venues and select public spaces, though the closure of many bathhouses during the 1980s left a lasting impact .

- San Francisco, once famed for its bathhouse culture, has struggled to recover fully since the crisis, but select clubs and parks—such as Buena Vista Park—remain active gathering points .

- Chicago, Miami, and Los Angeles also feature on the list, each with their own mix of clubs, bars, and occasional public cruising spots, though all fall short of their European counterparts in terms of variety and accessibility .

The lower scores for U.S. cities are attributed largely to the enduring effects of the 1980s, when closures and public health fears led to a contraction of queer spaces. Today, American cruising venues often prioritize privacy and security, reflecting both the country’s legal climate and the legacy of past traumas .

Beyond the rankings, cruising venues have long functioned as more than just sites for sexual encounters. For many, these spaces offer rare opportunities to build community, share resources, and find support—especially for men from smaller towns or less accepting environments. In cities like London, Berlin, and New York, cruising grounds are informal community centers, places where social boundaries dissolve and new connections form .

Different types of venues cater to different needs:

- Public parks (e.g., Hampstead Heath, Tiergarten, Casa de Campo) provide anonymity and adventure, often attracting diverse crowds.

- Saunas and bathhouses offer privacy and safety, frequently doubling as cultural hubs with events, health resources, and social programming .

- Cruising clubs and bars blend nightlife with opportunity, offering structured environments for those seeking connections.

Despite occasional risks—ranging from police crackdowns to personal security concerns—these spaces persist as vital threads in the fabric of LGBTQ+ urban life .

While the appeal of cruising lies in spontaneity and freedom, it is essential to approach these spaces with awareness and respect. Many parks and clubs post clear guidelines on consent, safe sex, and respectful behavior. Local LGBTQ+ organizations frequently offer resources on safety, including how to avoid legal risks and handle unwanted encounters .

Travelers are encouraged to research local laws and customs before engaging and to prioritize mutual respect in every interaction. In the era of digital connection, many men also use apps to coordinate encounters, blending online and offline cruising cultures .

The 2025 rankings serve as both a travel guide and a testament to the strength of LGBTQ+ communities worldwide. As cities continue to evolve, cruising venues remain crucial not only for casual connection but for fostering belonging, solidarity, and resilience. Whether in the thickets of Hampstead Heath or the neon-lit bars of New York, these spaces are a reminder: queer joy, love, and liberation will always find a way.

Despite financial uncertainty, 91 percent of Americans surveyed by Longwoods International plan to travel in the next six months, even if it means reducing spending in other areas to take a vacation. Priceline’s 2026 Travel Trends Report revealed that Americans intend to spend 15 days traveling for leisure next year and more money doing it.

“As we look ahead to 2026, it’s clear that the meaning behind each journey matters more than ever. People are traveling with purpose, whether that’s to reconnect, recharge, (re)discover, or take a breath,” said Hilton President & Chief Executive Officer, Chris Nassetta. “At Hilton, we call this shift the whyaction: it’s a global movement rooted in intentionality, where travel begins not with a destination, but with a motivation.”

Here are six top trending motivations driving vacation plans.Take a True Vacation

Hilton’s 2026 Trends Report shows the top motivation for travel is to rest and recharge. Whether that’s sleeping in, spending days lounging by the pool, or booking a resort for its extensive wellness and spa offerings, travelers have more options than ever before, even with kids in tow.

Parker, the best boutique hotel in Palm Springs, is dedicated to the art of relaxation. A stay at the 13-acre Jonathan Adler–designed desert oasis, where guests can stroll the manicured gardens, lounge at one of their three pools, or indulge at the spa, melts away stress.

The number one destination spa in the world, according to Condé Nast Traveler, is closer than travelers think . Palmaïa – The House of AïA outside of Cancun is more than an all-inclusive wellness resort; it’s a beautifully designed experience for the senses and the soul. And for harried parents in desperate need of a recharge, families are welcome. Adults can have a wellness retreat-style experience while kids stay busy at the children’s club.

For those seeking something deeper, the wellness sanctuary Euphoria Retreat in the Peloponnese UNESCO heritage landscape blends Greek healing traditions with Chinese medicine and modern science. It’s a transformative experience.

“Our mission is to empower people to embrace their fullest potential, age gracefully, live healthier, and thrive with purpose, joy, and boundless energy,” explains Marina Efraimoglou, founder of Euphoria Retreat.

Get Away, Easily

The demand for family getaways that require minimal effort, the desire to recharge while watching budgets, and the opening of reliable all-inclusive resorts by major chains have ushered in a new era of popularity for all-inclusive resorts.

"As a mom of two young kids, all-inclusive resorts offer a big, easy button for a stress-free vacation. The resort handles everything, so I don't have to worry about planning things like entertainment, traveling to and from dining options, and meals," says Alex, Founder of Delish Knowledge.

Travelers can choose from a wide range of all-inclusive resorts, such as the top-rated Hilton Cancun, the beloved Mohonk Mountain House, located ninety miles north of New York City but a world away, or the boutique, family-focused Alexandra Resort perched on Turks and Caicos' stunning Grace Bay.

Sailing to Adventure

The all-inclusive format of cruises, combined with the ability to visit multiple destinations and only unpack once, is expected to draw 40 million cruise guests in 2026. With a wide variety of options, all types of travelers are stepping on board to get away.

Nearing 80 years of sailing in Alaska, Holland America Line provides more glacier-viewing opportunities and more ways to see wildlife than any other cruise line. Add on one of their signature cruisetours that combines a sailing with a tour to Denali National Park and the Yukon for deeper adventures.

MSC Group's ultra-elegant brand, Explora Journeys, brings a luxury boutique hotel vibe to the sea, turning even anti-cruisers into fans. In two short years since their first sailing, they've won acclaim from discerning guests, including families, for serenity at sea without the usual crowds.

AmaWaterways, a long-standing top-rated river cruise line, has 31 custom-built ships sailing through Europe, Southeast Asia, Africa, Egypt, and Colombia, and welcomes kids over the age of 4. Their crown jewel, the AmaMagna ship, was named as one of Time Magazine's World's Greatest Places.

Those looking to get away without children can escape on Virgin Voyages, Travel + Leisure World's Best Mega Ship. Their luxurious cruises sail from ports in the U.S., Caribbean, Greece, and Spain for adults-only adventures.

For The Love of The Game

According to the American Express Travel Global Trends Report, 60% of respondents plan on taking at least one trip for a sporting event, which is expected to drive 100 million Americans to travel. In 2026, approximately 5 million soccer fans will attend the 2026 FIFA World Cup events in 11 U.S. cities, more than 6 million racing fans will attend glitzy Formula 1 events, and a million golfers will attend tournaments to watch their favorites tee off.

And it is not just spectators driving sports-related travel. According to Buffalo Groupe, more than 12 million golfers travel for rounds, with an average trip budget of $7,000. According to Priceline’s findings, Millennials are 80% more likely to plan a vacation around playing tennis, and 87% more likely for pickleball.

Avoid Peak Travel

With travel demand and summer temperatures at historic highs, today’s travelers are eroding the concept of shoulder season, which refers to the months surrounding peak travel periods.

Virtuoso, an organization of 20,000 travel advisors responsible for $35 billion in yearly travel bookings, reports that fall trips are up for the third consecutive year. Their 2026 Luxe Report noted that comfortable climates and the freedom to enjoy a destination unencumbered by crowds are hallmarks of today's luxury travel.

For example, travelers are skipping the summer chaos of Lake Tahoe and joining in on ‘local summer’ by visiting in the Fall. An autumn stay at the Forbes 4-Star and AAA 4-Diamond Edgewood Tahoe Resort, filled with fall foliage views and world-class golf, is made even better with fall promotions. Or discover how delicious a fall trip to Nantucket is.

The world-famous Nantucket Bay Scallops shine, and the odds for a table at The Wauwinet, the island’s only Relais & Chateaux resort, significantly increase. In Napa Valley, November brings a relaxed environment to enjoy the full display of autumn colors, fewer crowds at the most popular wineries and restaurants, and glorious mid-60s California weather.

Individualized Trips Based on IRL Influencers

In a swing of the pendulum, those guiding today's dream vacations are not found in social media feeds, but in real life. According to The Luxury Travel Report by Preferred Hotels and Resorts, travelers are disappointed in algorithmic-driven travel experiences. More than ¾ surveyed agree that the best travel tips, curated lists, and experiences are the ones you don't find online. They believe a trusted travel advisor is more valuable than unlimited internet research because their itineraries are tailored to individual travel needs rather than what's trending.

In family travel, “Kidfluencers” are now playing a significant role in deciding where their family goes. Priceline's report revealed that 87% of parents actively involve their children in finalizing vacations, with 77% agreeing that if the kids aren't excited about the trip, there's no point in going.

Yet, focusing only on the markets means missing much of what makes the Czech capital’s holiday season unique. Across landmarks, local neighborhoods, and long-held traditions, Prague’s festive spirit stretches far beyond the rows of wooden stalls.

Prague Christmas Markets

First things first, the city’s Christmas markets are impossible to ignore. The heart of it all beats at Old Town Square, where a towering Christmas tree will rise before the Gothic spires of the Týn Church and lights will shimmer across the square. Visitors can browse wooden stalls filled with handcrafted ornaments, sip mulled wine, and try Trdelník, which is not originally Czech but a tourist favorite. The market will run from Nov. 29, 2025, through Jan. 6, 2026, and will be open daily from 10 a.m. to 10 p.m. Stage performances will take place between 4 and 7 p.m., and the tree will light up each hour in the evening.

A short walk away, Wenceslas Square will host another bustling market extending the festive atmosphere through the city’s commercial center. While the upper part of the square remains under construction due to tram line work, the market, traditionally held in the lower section, will go ahead as planned.

For a cozier experience, Náměstí Míru and nearby Tylovo náměstí will again offer smaller markets popular with locals who gather after work to meet friends over a cup of svařák (mulled wine). These markets typically open earlier and close on Christmas Eve, providing an intimate look at how residents celebrate the season. Between the aroma of roasted chestnuts and carols echoing from church steps, Prague’s markets remain the heart of the city’s holiday cheer.

Christmas Trams Roaming Prague

Adding to the city’s seasonal glow, Prague’s trams will once again get a festive makeover. Several regular lines feature Christmas-themed trams decorated with bright LED lights, often shaped like snowflakes. For a more nostalgic experience, visitors can board the historical tram No. 42, a vintage streetcar wrapped in twinkling decorations that follows a scenic loop past many of Prague’s top sights. A special ticket is required, as regular transport passes don’t apply. Details are available on the Prague Tourism website.

Lamp-Lighting Ceremony

Each evening from Dec. 1 to 23, Charles Bridge takes on an old-world charm as a lamplighter dressed in historical attire walks the bridge to manually light its 46 gas lamps with a long bamboo pole. The ceremony begins around 4 p.m. at Křížovnické Square on the Old Town side and continues across the bridge before returning along the opposite path. The event draws crowds eager to watch the flicker of the lamps against the winter sky. It’s one of the few remaining lamplighter traditions in Europe and a distinctive part of Prague’s holiday season.

Ice-Skating

A relatively new addition to Prague’s winter attractions, the ice rink at Wenceslas Square has quickly become a seasonal highlight. Located in the lower part of the square, it offers ample space for skaters amid festive lights and music. The rink opens Dec. 1, 2025, and runs through February 2026, operating daily from 9 a.m. to 9 p.m. Entry costs 200 CZK for two hours (100 CZK for children), with skate rentals available on-site.

A Special Theater Play

Czech composer Jakub Jan Ryba, who lived between the 18th and 19th centuries, wrote a beloved composition about the birth of Jesus and the spirit of Christmas—his Czech Christmas Mass ( Česká mše vánoční ). This year, the piece has been reimagined by director Matěj Forman as a family-friendly theater production featuring wooden puppets, costumed singers, and festive staging.

The show will take place at the Municipal House, Smetana Hall, on Dec. 21 and 22, 2025, with both afternoon and evening performances. Tickets and details are available at the Prague Symphony Orchestra website.

Christmas Boat Trips

Seeing Prague from the Vltava River is a highlight in any season, but this winter brings special Advent cruises aboard glass-enclosed boats. Passengers can sip mulled wine, sample traditional Czech desserts, and listen to Christmas carols while passing illuminated landmarks, including Charles Bridge and Prague Castle. Tickets are available at prague-boats.cz.

Whether visitors come for the city’s world-famous Christmas markets or to experience its broader winter traditions, Prague offers a festive atmosphere that lingers long after the holidays end.

Tulum is widely regarded as Queer friendly, with same-sex marriage legal in Mexico since 2012 and little overt discrimination reported by visitors. Many queer travelers, including couples, report feeling safe and welcome in hotels, restaurants, and public spaces, though public displays of affection should still be mindful of local norms. The town’s reliance on tourism and its cosmopolitan visitor base contribute to a generally open-minded environment, but as with any destination, situational awareness is advised.

Tulum offers a range of accommodations catering to Queer travelers. The town itself features unique boutique hotels like Hotel Bardot, which pays homage to Mexican culture, and budget-friendly options such as Maison Tulum and Hotel Posada 06 Tulum, popular with gay travelers booking through platforms like Misterbnb. The beachfront hotel zone is home to luxury resorts, many of which are Queer friendly, though most are independent local brands rather than international chains.

For those seeking a more curated queer experience, Loba Tulum is a standout: an upscale, gay-men-only guesthouse and bar with a clothing-optional rooftop pool, themed events, and a social atmosphere that encourages connection among guests. While Tulum does not have a dedicated lesbian resort, the broader region features Dreams Tulum, an all-lesbian resort experience in the Riviera Maya.

Tulum’s nightlife is more intimate than in larger Mexican cities, but it is evolving. The Red Room, Tulum’s first full-time gay bar, has quickly become a community hub, hosting drag shows, themed nights, and a lively mix of locals and visitors. The atmosphere is described as jubilant and inclusive, with a diverse crowd that reflects Tulum’s growing queer scene. For those seeking pop-up parties, Fruits is a notable Queer event, though the broader party calendar is limited compared to nearby Playa del Carmen or Cancun.

Fruity Cocktail Bar, previously Tulum’s only dedicated queer bar, has been closed “until further notice,” according to its social media, so travelers should check for updates before planning a visit. In general, Queer nightlife in Tulum is best experienced through themed events, hotel gatherings, and the occasional pop-up party, rather than a bustling bar scene.

Beyond nightlife, Tulum’s appeal lies in its natural beauty and wellness offerings. The town is surrounded by pristine beaches, lush jungles, and the famous cenotes—natural swimming holes that are perfect for snorkeling and diving. Many queer travelers find community in wellness activities such as yoga classes on the beach, temazcal (traditional sweat lodge) ceremonies, and mindfulness workshops.

Cultural attractions include the Tulum Ruins, an ancient Mayan city perched on a cliff overlooking the Caribbean, and the iconic Chichen Itza, a UNESCO World Heritage site a few hours away. These sites offer a chance to connect with Mexico’s rich history while enjoying the region’s stunning scenery.

Tulum’s permanent Queer population is small but active, and there are increasing opportunities to connect with locals and fellow travelers. Grassroots initiatives like “Queer Tuesdays” bring together locals, expats, and visitors for casual meetups at cafes and juice bars around town. These gatherings are welcoming to all identities and offer a chance to share tips, stories, and recommendations in a relaxed setting.

Digital nomads, artists, and activists are drawn to Tulum’s creative energy, and it’s not uncommon to strike up conversations with fellow Queer travelers at a beach club, on a snorkeling tour, or over dinner. The sense of community is less about formal organizations and more about organic connections, making it easy for newcomers to feel at home.

Practical Tips for Queer Travelers

- Seasonal Considerations: Tulum has three main seasons: peak (November–April), wet (June–October), and shoulder (May, October). The dry season is busiest and most expensive, while the wet season offers lower prices but a higher chance of hurricanes.

- Health Services: Walk-in labs in Tulum town offer STI screening for travelers, though these are not free for visitors.

- Local Norms: While Tulum is Queer friendly, travelers should remain respectful of local customs regarding public displays of affection.

- Transportation: The town is easily walkable, and taxis or rented bikes are common ways to explore the hotel zone and nearby attractions.

Tulum is more than a beach destination—it’s a place where queer travelers can find relaxation, connection, and a sense of belonging. With a growing number of dedicated Queer spaces, a welcoming local community, and endless opportunities for wellness and adventure, Tulum stands out as a uniquely affirming stop on Mexico’s Riviera Maya. Whether you’re seeking quiet reflection by the sea, vibrant nights at the Red Room, or meaningful connections at a queer meetup, Tulum invites you to experience its magic on your own terms.

Tulum’s evolution as a queer-friendly destination reflects both the global appeal of its natural beauty and the warmth of its local community. For Queer travelers seeking a balance of relaxation, culture, and connection, Tulum delivers—one sunset, one cenote, and one heartfelt conversation at a time.

At its core, the Philly Pride Visitor Center aims to offer more than just travel advice and ticketing. It will feature curated exhibits showcasing Philadelphia’s pivotal role in queer history, including the first LGBTQ+ sit-in at Dewey’s restaurant in 1965 and the Annual Reminders demonstrations outside Independence Hall from 1965 to 1969. These events are recognized as foundational moments in the national LGBTQ+ rights movement, preceding the Stonewall riots and setting a precedent for activism and representation .

The historical content of the center has been developed in partnership with local activists and historians, notably Mark Segal, founder of Philadelphia Gay News. Segal emphasized the city’s enduring legacy in a statement: “Our city helped launch the fight for representation in media, shaped national policy, and created safe, visible spaces for our community. Now, with the opening of the Philly Pride Visitor Center, Philadelphia proudly honors that legacy and reaffirms its commitment to those who call this community home” .

The establishment of the Pride Visitor Center reflects Philadelphia’s commitment to welcoming all travelers, especially those seeking affirming spaces and community connection. The center will provide itinerary planning, access to tickets for local events, and travel advice tailored to LGBTQ+ visitors. In addition, the center will offer souvenirs sourced from queer-owned businesses, serving as a showcase for local entrepreneurship and creative talent .

Organizers expect the center to be a focal point during Pride Weekend and other major celebrations, acting as an anchor for visitors attending festivities in the city’s vibrant Gayborhood. The center will also support outreach to international guests arriving for the World Cup and MLB All-Star Game, ensuring that Philadelphia’s message of inclusion is broadcast globally .

Philadelphia’s LGBTQ+ history is deeply interwoven with the broader narrative of American civil rights. The city was the site of the first organized LGBTQ+ protest in the United States, the Dewey’s sit-in, where activists challenged discriminatory policies against gender-nonconforming and transgender people. The Annual Reminders, held outside Independence Hall between 1965 and 1969, brought attention to the lack of civil rights for sexual minorities and laid the groundwork for the national movement that would follow .

The Pride Visitor Center’s exhibits will illuminate these stories, connecting local activism to national milestones such as the Stonewall riots and the eventual recognition of LGBTQ+ rights in law and culture. By situating these narratives within the context of the U.S. 250th anniversary, the center underscores the importance of LGBTQ+ inclusion in the ongoing pursuit of equality and freedom.

The success of the Pride Visitor Center is rooted in community collaboration. Planners worked closely with Philadelphia’s diverse LGBTQ+ organizations, business owners, and cultural leaders to ensure the center reflects the needs and aspirations of those it aims to serve. The project benefited from extensive public feedback, resulting in a space that is accessible, affirming, and educational for all visitors .

The center’s opening is expected to boost local tourism, draw attention to LGBTQ+-owned enterprises, and foster greater understanding of the city’s progressive history. Philadelphia’s reputation as an inclusive destination is poised to grow, setting a standard for other cities seeking to celebrate and support their LGBTQ+ communities.

As Philadelphia prepares for an influx of visitors during the nation’s semiquincentennial, the Philly Pride Visitor Center stands as both a celebration of past achievements and a commitment to ongoing advocacy. With major international and national events on the horizon, the center will be instrumental in introducing guests to the city’s welcoming spirit and rich queer heritage.

The project aligns with Philadelphia’s broader efforts to promote diversity, equity, and inclusion across public spaces and cultural institutions. City officials, tourism agencies, and community leaders hope that the Pride Visitor Center will serve as a model for other cities, demonstrating the value of investing in LGBTQ+ infrastructure and storytelling .

The establishment of the Philly Pride Visitor Center marks a significant step forward for Philadelphia’s LGBTQ+ community and for the city’s commitment to commemorating the full spectrum of American history. As the United States celebrates its 250th anniversary, the center offers an opportunity to honor the struggles and triumphs of queer people, amplify their stories, and ensure that future generations have access to the resources and representation they deserve.

Charleston’s reputation for charm isn’t limited to its antebellum architecture or picturesque waterfronts. The city’s tradition of hospitality extends to LGBTQ+ travelers, who are greeted openly and invited to participate in the city’s dynamic cultural tapestry . The historic downtown district, with its cobblestone streets and pastel facades, is highly walkable and feels surprisingly cosmopolitan, retaining an “East Coast sophistication” while remaining accessible and friendly .

Bulldog Tours, a local favorite, offers LGBTQ+ history walking tours, highlighting the city’s queer past and spotlighting significant sites. Led by knowledgeable guides, these tours share stories of resilience and visibility, including accounts of local figures and events that shaped Charleston’s LGBTQ+ community .

Charleston’s calendar is dotted with inclusive festivals and events that bring the LGBTQ+ community together while welcoming visitors from all backgrounds.

- Charleston Pride Week is the city’s flagship LGBTQ+ celebration, held each September. Events include comedy shows, trivia nights, dance parties, and “Dragaoke”—an LGBTQ+ spin on karaoke—offering spaces for queer joy and visibility .

- Charleston Pride Parade takes place every June in honor of national Pride Month, filling historic King Street with vibrant floats, music, and community groups. The parade is inclusive, inviting organizations and individuals to participate and celebrate diversity .

- Charleston Pride Pageant showcases local performers competing in drag, singing, and dance for a spot on the Pride Royal Court, reinforcing the city’s support for queer artistry .

- Charleston Black Pride Weekend** centers Black LGBTQ+ experiences, with workshops, panels, and performances that foster community, advocacy, and education .

- Park Circle Pride in North Charleston is among the South’s largest and most diverse Pride festivals, spanning a week of activities—from drag brunches and art walks to youth fests and cabaret shows—held at inclusive venues across the city .

Charleston’s commitment to intersectionality is evident in the range of events designed to uplift marginalized voices within the LGBTQ+ community. The city’s pride celebrations are not just about visibility but about fostering meaningful connections and advocacy.

While Charleston’s dedicated LGBTQ+ nightlife scene is smaller than those in larger metropolitan areas, it is robust and welcoming. Most bars and clubs in the city are LGBTQ+ inclusive, and the overall atmosphere is laid-back and nonjudgmental .

- Dudley’s on Ann stands as the city’s oldest gay bar and a cornerstone of queer social life. Known as “Charleston’s Everyone’s Bar,” Dudley’s features regular drag performances, themed nights, and a lively dance floor, serving as a gathering place for locals and visitors alike .

- Bin 152 combines a wine bar, art gallery, and antique market, offering an upscale yet casual experience for those seeking a quieter evening. Its extensive wine list and charcuterie selection attract a diverse crowd, and the venue is recognized as LGBTQ+ friendly .

- The Rooftop at Vendue has been voted “Best Rooftop Bar” by Charleston City Paper for over a decade and provides panoramic views of the city—ideal for sunset cocktails and romantic evenings .

- For craft cocktails, The Gin Joint is a favorite among locals for its inventive menu and welcoming atmosphere .

The overall consensus from travelers and locals is that Charleston is safe and comfortable for LGBTQ+ visitors. Many report feeling free to express affection and identity in non-LGBTQ-specific establishments, reflecting the city’s open-mindedness .

Charleston’s LGBTQ+ advocacy scene is bolstered by several active organizations:

- Charleston Pride coordinates the city’s main pride events and year-round programming.

- Alliance For Full Acceptance (AFFA) advocates for LGBTQ+ rights and education, hosting workshops and community initiatives .

- We Are Family provides support and resources for LGBTQ+ youth, including social programs, mentorship, and educational services .

- Charleston Area Transgender Support (CATS) offers peer support, advocacy, and resources for transgender people in the region .

These organizations are instrumental in fostering a sense of belonging and safety for visitors and locals, providing valuable connections for those seeking community engagement or assistance.

Charleston’s LGBTQ+ history is rich but often underrepresented. Local historian Harlen Greene is working to document and archive the city’s queer past through The Real Rainbow Row initiative, which collects photographs, diaries, and memorabilia related to LGBTQ+ life in Charleston. The project invites community input and financial support to preserve these histories for future generations .

Bulldog Tours’ LGBTQ+ history tour is an excellent way for travelers to learn about the city’s queer heritage and the significant figures who shaped Charleston’s progressive identity .

King Street is Charleston’s premier shopping destination, with high-end boutiques, antique shops, and a monthly pedestrian-only festival that brings the community together for open-air shopping and dining .

For culinary enthusiasts, Charleston offers a range of LGBTQ+ friendly establishments and local favorites:

- Sugar Bakeshop is beloved for its fresh cakes, tarts, and cookies, and its charming vibe makes it a popular stop for travelers .

- The city’s restaurant scene reflects Charleston’s diversity, with options ranging from classic Southern fare to international cuisine, many of which are welcoming to LGBTQ+ diners.

Beyond Pride, Charleston hosts a variety of festivals that reflect its inclusive spirit:

- The Charleston Greek Festival celebrates Greek culture and cuisine, drawing over 35,000 attendees annually .

- The Holiday Festival of Lights at James Island County Park offers a spectacular three-mile drive through illuminated displays, popular among families and friends of all backgrounds .

Charleston’s unique blend of history, hospitality, and LGBTQ+ affirmation makes it a top choice for queer travelers seeking both adventure and community. Whether for a romantic getaway, family vacation, or cultural pilgrimage, Charleston welcomes all with open arms, ensuring every visitor experiences the warmth and pride of the city’s diverse community.

That would be at the Metropolitan Museum of Art. It’s been more than a decade since the museum’s last big Egypt show, so “Divine Egypt” — a lavish exploration of how ancient Egyptians depicted their gods — is a major event, as evidenced by the crowds packing the show since its Oct. 12 opening.

After all, few things excite the museum-going public like ancient Egypt, notes Diana Craig Patch, the Met’s curator of Egyptian art.

“It’s the first ancient culture that you learn in school,” says Patch. “Pyramids, mummies, the great tomb of Tutankhamun … they’re in our popular culture, books, films and now video games.”

But Patch hopes visitors will learn something deeper from “Divine Egypt,” which explores how the gods were portrayed by Egyptians both royal and common, and not only in temples where only kings or priests could go, but in daily worship by ordinary people.

Ancient Egyptian civilization lasted some 3,000 years; the show, which runs into January, covers all periods and features over 200 objects, from huge limestone statues to tiny golden figurines. It includes 140 works from the Met’s collection, as well as others lent by museums across the globe.

“The divine landscape of ancient Egypt is full of gods — actually 1,500 if you count all of them,” said Patch, leading The Associated Press on a tour last week. The show focuses on 25 main deities.

Even pared down to 25, the research was daunting. The material and the textual information in Egyptology is fragmentary. What's more, the Egyptians kept bringing in new gods, or giving established gods new roles. “And so that makes it a very complex, but fascinating landscape,” Patch says.

One aim is to show visitors that all of these images concern “how ancient Egyptians related to their world. Those gods were how they solved problems of life, death, and meaning — problems that we’re still trying to solve today.”

Some highlights:

Opening greetings from Amun-Re and a king named Tut

You’d think that the boy king Tutankhamun, aka King Tut, would be the star of any party, given the astounding riches from his tomb the world has come to know. But in a sculpture that first greets visitors, from the Louvre in Paris, the solar god Amun-Re sits on a throne, presenting the much smaller pharaoh beneath his knees — or rather, protecting him — with hands resting on the small shoulders. The god is identified by his feathered crown, curled beard, divine kilt and jewelry — and is definitely the main attraction. Amun-Re was worshipped at the Karnak temple complex; the presence of Re in his name links him closely to the sun.

Expressing the divine: Horus and Hathor

The first of five galleries, “Expressing the Divine” focuses on two main deities, the god Horus and goddess Hathor. Horus is always represented as a falcon with a double crown, which signifies he is the king of Egypt and linked to the living king. But Hathor, who represents fertility, music and defense, among other things, takes many forms, including a cow, an emblem, a lion-headed figure or a cobra. In one statue here, she wears cow horns and a sun disc.

“So these are two main ways gods are represented: sometimes with lots of roles, sometimes with only one,” Patch says.

Ruling the cosmos: the sun god Re

This gallery looks at the all-important Re, whose domains are the sun, creation, life and rebirth. Re often merges form with other deities. “Re rules the world — he's the source of light and warmth,” Patch says.

He's presented in this room as a giant scarab beetle. “That's his morning aspect,” Patch says. “He's seen as a beetle who takes the sun out from the underworld and pushes it up into the sky.”

Also here is a vivid painted relief of the goddess Maat, from the Valley of the Kings in Thebes (modern Luxor). She embodies truth, justice and social and political order. Patch notes: “The best way we translate it today is rightness. She stands for the world in rightness, the way it should work.”

Creating the world: multiple mythologies of creation

This gallery explores five myths surrounding the creation of the world and its inhabitants.

“This is one of the things that I hope people begin to take away: that Egyptians had multiple ways of dealing with things,” Patch says of the competing myths. “I find that fascinating. They overlapped.”

She's standing beside a huge statue of the god Min in limestone — a headless representation of a hard-to-define god associated with vegetation, agricultural fertility and minerals.

Coping with life: a statuette in solid gold

Only kings and priests could access state temples to worship their gods. What were regular folks to do?

Patch explains: “At festivals, the god came out of the temple on a sacred barque (sailing vessel), and people could commune with that image in the streets, and ask him or her questions.”

In this room, curators have arranged a set of objects as if on a barque. At the top and center: a gleaming, solid gold statuette of Amun, which the Met purchased in 1926 from the collection of Lord Carnarvon, who was involved in the 1922 discovery of Tut’s tomb.

Overcoming death: the gods of the afterlife

Some of the most striking art connected to Egyptian gods is about death and the afterlife. “Overcoming death is something that kings and non-royals alike had to deal with,” says Patch.

The gods in this section include Anubis, who embalms the deceased and leads them to the afterlife; Isis and Nephthys, the sisters of Osiris, who mourn and protect the dead; and Osiris, judge and ruler of the afterlife.

This gallery houses the show’s signature object: a stunning statuette, on loan from the Louvre, depicting the triad of Osiris, Isis and Horus. Made of gold inlaid with lapis lazuli, it shows the shrouded Osiris, falcon-headed Horus, and Isis in a sun disc and horns. The gold represents the skin of the gods, the lapis their hair.

Although this last section is about overcoming death, “I think you will have seen that most of the exhibition is about life,” Patch notes. “And that is what all of these deities were about. Even in overcoming death, it was about living forever.”

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For many in the queer community, Frog Meadow has stood as more than just a resort: it is a living legacy, a safe space where men have gathered for workshops, wellness retreats, and the simple joys of companionship. Scott and Dave’s announcement, delivered with heartfelt gratitude and optimism, underscores their dedication to ensuring that the property remains an “oasis for men”—not just in name, but in spirit .

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Davey Wavey, whose media work has centered on sex-positive education, body acceptance, and queer empowerment, is no stranger to Frog Meadow. Having first visited in 2008, Wavey has cultivated a deep relationship with the space and its founders, collaborating on Himeros.tv projects that have brought together diverse voices in the celebration of erotic wellness .



In a statement following the acquisition, Wavey described Frog Meadow as his “favorite place on earth,” a sanctuary offering balance, connection, and beauty in a chaotic world. “Dreams do come true,” he wrote, expressing gratitude for the opportunity to steward the property and nurture its legacy for years to come . The new owner’s commitment is clear: Frog Meadow will remain a safe and inclusive space, continuing to welcome guests and host workshops designed for queer men.

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The transition is being managed thoughtfully, with Scott and Dave staying on through October 30, 2025 to ensure business as usual. All current reservations, credits, and gift certificates will be honored, and key staff members—including Assistant Innkeeper Jay and Guest Services Associate Ben—will remain part of the team . Frog Meadow will re-open for the 2026 season on April 21, operating year-round and continuing its much-loved programming.



Central to Frog Meadow’s identity are its workshops and retreats, which have offered participants opportunities for personal growth, sexual wellness, and spiritual connection. The upcoming calendar includes events such as “Nourishing Male Vitality Through Tantra and Touch,” led by certified professionals and tailored to the needs of queer men . These programs cover a wide spectrum—from bodywork and massage to discussions of intimacy, mindfulness, and healthy relationships .

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Participants consistently praise Frog Meadow for its atmosphere of camaraderie and acceptance, describing their stays as “relaxed, rejuvenated, and recharged” . The retreat’s commitment to body, mind, and spirit is evident not only in its programming, but in its approach to hospitality: every guest is welcomed as part of a larger community, and the space itself is designed to foster safety, comfort, and meaningful connection.

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With Wavey at the helm, guests can expect the continuation—and evolution—of these offerings, including collaborations with Himeros.tv and other partners in queer wellness and entertainment . The property’s website and booking system remain open, with special promotions marking the transition and encouraging new and returning guests to experience Vermont’s “gay oasis” .




Frog Meadow’s story is emblematic of the broader movement toward LGBTQ+ affirming travel and hospitality. As queer spaces face pressures from commercialization and shifting social norms, the preservation of dedicated sanctuaries like Frog Meadow takes on renewed importance. The founders’ multi-year plan for succession, rooted in a commitment to community stewardship, reflects a deep understanding of the challenges and opportunities facing LGBTQ+ retreat spaces .



Wavey’s acquisition is noteworthy not only for its personal significance, but for its potential impact. As a media figure who has championed sex positivity, queer joy, and holistic wellness, Wavey brings a unique perspective to the role of innkeeper. His stewardship promises to balance the traditions of Frog Meadow with new approaches to programming, outreach, and community engagement .

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Looking ahead, Frog Meadow will continue to serve as a model for inclusive, affirming travel, offering workshops, events, and hospitality tailored to the needs of gay, bisexual, and transgender men. The property’s legacy—built over 19 years of service—will endure and evolve, guided by a new generation of leadership committed to nurturing queer wellness and community .

As Frog Meadow enters its next chapter under Davey Wavey’s ownership, the retreat stands poised to remain a cornerstone of queer men’s wellness, connection, and celebration. Guided by a spirit of gratitude and purpose, the new stewardship offers guests the promise of continuity—and the excitement of new horizons in LGBTQ+ hospitality.

Hundreds of additional visitors came to the Hessische Landesmuseum in the central German city of Wiesbaden over the weekend to admire the painting, with one family traveling from the northern city of Hamburg especially for the occasion, museum spokesperson Susanne Hirschmann told The Associated Press on Thursday.

Among the visitors were also many American families who are stationed at an U.S. Army base in Wiesbaden.

The Swifties’ goal: an Art Nouveau painting by Friedrich Heyser featuring Ophelia, Hamlet’s beloved in William Shakespeare’s play of the same name.

In the original play, Ophelia, a young noblewoman of Denmark, ultimately becomes mad and drowns.

Heyser’s oil-on-canvas painting presents the figure of Ophelia clad in white and surrounded by white water lilies. The painting’s exact year of creation is not known but experts believe it dates back to around 1900.

In the opening scene of the video for the hit song “The Fate of Ophelia,” Swift slips into the role of Ophelia and becomes a living painting.

The scene shows similarities to the work of Heyser, museum director Andreas Henning told German news agency dpa.

Hirschmann said the museum team recognized the resemblance earlier this month and decided to invite Swifties for a special tour next month. Once they had posted an announcement of the tour on their website, news of the Ophelia painting soon went viral online.

“We’re really enjoying this attention — it’s a lot of fun,” Hirschmann told the AP, adding that all fans showing up for the Nov. 2 tour “Taylor Swift’s ‘Ophelia’ at the Wiesbaden museum” dressed as the pop star or as “the tragic beauty Ophelia” will be able to attend the tour for free.

There’s just one problem: the tour is already completely booked, so the museum may just have to add additional tours for all art-crazed Swiftie fans.

Henning said the museum has already tried to contact the singer, but has had no success so far getting a hold of the world star. “I would love to show Taylor Swift the original painting sometime,” he said.

“We are surprised and delighted that Taylor Swift used this painting from the museum as inspiration for her video,” Henning said. “This is, of course, a great opportunity to attract people to the museum who don’t know us yet.”

The museum said it does not know for sure if the art work served as a template for Swift’s song, which is currently a No. 1 hit both in Germany and the United States.