Far from the usual circuit of gay beaches and big-city Pride, Michigan’s Keweenaw Peninsula — anchored by the tiny twin towns of Houghton and Hancock — is quietly emerging as a surprisingly warm, queer-affirming outpost on the frigid edge of Lake Superior.
On a June afternoon in Houghton, Michigan, rainbow flags ripple along a hillside street where old brick storefronts face the steel span of the Portage Lake Lift Bridge. A drag performer in a sequined parka lip-syncs on a makeshift stage as a line forms at the frybread stand, and a vendor carefully pins a tiny trans flag button to a denim jacket that has definitely seen a snowstorm or twelve. This is Keweenaw Pridefest — and it is not the queer travel backdrop most people picture when they think “summer in Michigan. ”
But that’s exactly the point.
Tucked at the top of Michigan’s Upper Peninsula, surrounded on three sides by the cold, glittering expanse of Lake Superior, the Keweenaw Peninsula — and its college town hub of Houghton-Hancock — is emerging as an off‑radar LGBTQ+‑friendly destination where queer travelers can breathe, be seen, and still get sand in their shoes .
You don’t stumble into the Keweenaw; you commit to it. From Detroit, it’s an eight‑plus‑hour drive through forests and along lonely stretches of highway before the landscape narrows to a peninsula of rocky shoreline, waterfalls, and copper‑rush ghost towns. That isolation has historically made the region feel conservative and insular — not the most obvious setting for rainbow crosswalks.
Yet on the campus of Michigan Technological University in Houghton, the student organization Keweenaw Pride has been quietly laying the groundwork for a different story for over three decades. The group traces its roots to the early 1990s and now hosts an annual Pride Week, drag shows, and a growing Spring Pridefest that invites the entire community, not just students.
In recent years, the event has outgrown campus lawns and spilled toward downtown, with local businesses flying Pride flags and sponsoring booths, from coffee shops to outdoor outfitters. The visibility is deliberate: organizers say they want queer and questioning young people — and visitors driving in from even more rural towns — to know they are welcome here.
While Michigan’s queer tourism spotlight tends to shine on places like Saugatuck-Douglas and Traverse City, LGBTQ+ travel guides have begun name‑checking Houghton and the Keweenaw as part of a broader wave of smaller, progressive Great Lakes communities that feel increasingly welcoming to queer and trans travelers. That early trickle of coverage is now meeting something real on the ground: a community that is, if not loudly queer, decidedly queer‑affirming.
Safety, of course, is not just about vibes; it is about laws, protections, and how those play out in everyday life. Michigan has seen a rapid and significant shift in legal protections for LGBTQ+ people over the last few years, changes that are especially meaningful in rural areas where queer folks can feel exposed.
In 2023, Michigan expanded its Elliott‑Larsen Civil Rights Act to explicitly include sexual orientation and gender identity, making discrimination against LGBTQ+ people in housing, employment, and public accommodations illegal statewide. In 2024, the state continued to be highlighted as a comparatively safe Midwestern option in multiple LGBTQ+ travel and rights round‑ups for its anti‑discrimination protections and for maintaining access to gender‑affirming care for transgender people.
Locally, Houghton and Hancock benefit from that statewide framework while layering on their own quiet cues of welcome. Michigan Technological University outlines non‑discrimination protections for LGBTQ+ students and staff, includes gender identity in its policies, and supports a Center for Diversity and Inclusion that regularly partners with Keweenaw Pride and other identity‑based student groups. Campus housing has worked to accommodate gender‑inclusive options, and the university publicly promotes LGBTQ+ resource lists, from counseling to student organizations.
Meanwhile, the nearby city of Marquette — about two and a half hours south and functionally the “big city” for the Upper Peninsula — is home to Upper Peninsula Rainbow Pride, which hosts a well‑attended annual Pridefest on the Lake Superior waterfront and actively promotes the U. P. as a safe and affirming region for LGBTQ+ people. Those signals matter to travelers deciding whether the two‑lane road to the Keweenaw will feel like an escape or a risk.
So what does this look and feel like if you’re visiting with a partner, chosen family, or on a solo queer retreat?
First, the setting is outrageously dramatic. The Keweenaw juts into Lake Superior in a series of rocky coves, pebbled beaches, and steep, forested ridges. The region is known for its fall color drives, waterfall hikes, and epic lake-effect snow — annual snow totals regularly top 200 inches in Houghton, making it one of the snowiest cities in the contiguous United States.
For outdoorsy LGBTQ+ travelers, that translates to four‑season options:
- In summer, a hike at Hungarian Falls or a sunset stroll at McLain State Park comes with the soft roar of water and the smell of pine, plus a good chance of running into a dog wearing a bandana in bisexual‑flag colors. - In fall, Brockway Mountain Drive turns into a tunnel of red and gold, with Lake Superior gleaming far below — a natural backdrop that feels made for a queer engagement photo shoot or a deeply introspective solo road trip. - In winter, it’s snowshoeing, skiing, and watching the northern lights from frozen beaches; this is one of the few U. S. regions with semi‑regular aurora sightings, especially in peak solar years.
Houghton itself offers a compact, walkable downtown with coffee shops, bookstores, and bars that may not market themselves as “gay” but are conspicuously unfazed by queer couples holding hands or groups of students in trans and nonbinary flag hoodies debriefing a drag show. During campus Pride Week, some windows sprout rainbow decals; others offer Pride‑themed drink specials or donate a portion of sales to LGBTQ+ student organizations.
To the north, the former mining town of Calumet is seeing a small arts revival, with galleries and performance spaces that frequently align themselves with inclusive, progressive values, even if they don’t always use the full LGBTQ+ acronym in their marketing. Queer travelers who love history will find layers of stories here — from Anishinaabe communities to labor struggles — and a reminder that rural spaces have always been more complicated than stereotypes suggest.
Part of what makes Houghton feel different from other rural towns of under 10, 000 people is the presence of Michigan Technological University, which brings in students from around the world and tends to skew younger and more progressive than the surrounding region.
Keweenaw Pride, which is student‑run, has hosted an annual drag show that draws hundreds of attendees, often selling out, and includes performers from across Michigan and sometimes neighboring states. The organization also collaborates with residence halls and campus departments on educational events, from Transgender Day of Remembrance vigils to panels on queer and trans experiences in STEM fields.
For visitors, that campus energy is palpable. In coffee shops near the university, flyers advertise queer‑friendly Dungeons & Dragons nights, LGBTQ+ book clubs, and peer support groups hosted through the Center for Diversity and Inclusion. Those spaces can be vital for transgender and nonbinary travelers, or for anyone who has learned to scan a room for potential allies before ordering a latte.
And while you won’t find a dedicated gay bar here, you will find what many big‑city queer people secretly crave: mixed spaces where straight locals don’t blink at neopronouns, where a lesbian couple from Chicago can decompress after a week of backpacking, and where a queer engineering student and a retired miner might both be cheering for the same hockey team.
Compared with Palm Springs, Provincetown, or Key West — all perennial features on lists of top gay destinations for their density of queer nightlife and resorts — the Keweenaw offers a quieter, more integrated kind of queer experience. Those destinations are important, glittering anchors of LGBTQ+ culture, but they can also feel expensive and overwhelming, especially for travelers who are more interested in hiking boots than harnesses.
Travel outlets have increasingly noted that LGBTQ+ travelers are seeking out smaller, less obvious destinations that combine safety with nature, culture, and affordability. Guides focused on queer adventurers now highlight not only the usual gayborhoods but also places like Traverse City, Michigan — another lakeside town with a growing reputation for LGBTQ+ friendliness — as examples of this shift.
The Keweenaw is a step further off that path: fewer rainbow crosswalks, more mossy sandstone and shipwreck lore. But for queer travelers, especially those who are introverted, nature‑loving, or wary of being “on display, ” that can be a selling point. Instead of a packed dance floor, you get the thrill of skinny‑dipping at dusk in a hidden cove with someone you love, or the quiet satisfaction of being the visibly queer couple at the next picnic table over — and having that be completely unremarkable.
None of this makes the Keweenaw a utopia. Rural America remains uneven terrain for LGBTQ+ people, and the Upper Peninsula has its share of political polarization and religious conservatism. The region’s LGBTQ+ residents still report experiences of family rejection, microaggressions, and the familiar problem of Everyone Knowing Everything in small towns.
Winter travel here can also be intense: snowstorms close roads, temperatures plunge well below freezing, and that romantic cabin in the woods requires a four‑wheel‑drive vehicle and serious cold‑weather gear. For transgender travelers, especially those who may need regular access to specific medications or affirming medical care, the rural health‑care landscape can be complicated, requiring planning and backup options in larger cities like Marquette or even across the border in Wisconsin.
But for many LGBTQ+ travelers, particularly those who are used to code‑switching between big‑city queer bubbles and small‑town realities, the Keweenaw strikes a compelling balance. It offers:
- Legal protections at the state level, including for transgender people. - A visible, active campus‑based Pride community that spills over into the wider town. - A sense of safety reinforced by public Pride events, affirming campus policies, and a growing culture of inclusion. - World‑class outdoor experiences that don’t require you to closet yourself to enjoy them.
In other words, this is a destination where “getting away from it all” does not have to mean getting away from yourself.
For LGBTQ+ travelers eyeing a trip, the practicalities are straightforward:
- You can fly into Hancock’s small airport or drive from larger hubs like Minneapolis, Milwaukee, or Detroit, turning the journey into a road‑trip through the Northwoods. - Summer and early fall offer the best mix of outdoor access and milder weather, with Pride‑adjacent events typically clustered around the late spring semester at Michigan Tech and regional Pride celebrations further south in Marquette in June. - Lodging ranges from chain hotels near campus to historic inns and rustic cabins along Lake Superior; many emphasize welcoming “all families” and highlight non‑discrimination policies on their websites.
And if you happen to time it right, you might end up on that hillside in Houghton in June, watching drag performers share a stage with local bands as the smell of pasties and kettle corn curls over the crowd. You might notice a group of teenagers in rainbow capes laughing with an older gay couple who drove up from Wisconsin, and a sign at a campus booth that reads, in block letters: “You Are Loved in the Keweenaw. ”
On the world map of queer travel, it’s a tiny dot. On a personal map of where it feels possible to be fully yourself — outdoorsy, nerdy, trans, questioning, Black, disabled, ace, loud, shy, all of the above — that dot might be worth circling.
Luxury is moving behind closed doors as affluent travelers trade five-star hotels for private villas and ultra-exclusive stays. Photo Credit: Hale ‘O Ka La
Marble lobbies, exclusive addresses and posh furnishings no longer define luxury travel. Today, affluent travelers are increasingly choosing private villas, chalets and ultra-exclusive retreats over traditional five-star hotels.
Marble lobbies, exclusive addresses and posh furnishings no longer define luxury travel. Today, affluent travelers are increasingly choosing private villas, chalets and ultra-exclusive retreats over traditional five-star hotels. As privacy and personalization rise in priority, demand has shifted toward properties that limit access by design rather than scale for visibility.
Existing market data support this sudden change in traveler interest. The global luxury villa rental market is projected to grow at more than 7% annually through 2030, according to Allied Market Research, outpacing growth in many traditional hotel segments. Virtuoso advisor surveys and booking data show continued strength in high-end travel, with increasing demand for private accommodations suited to families and group travel. Platforms such as Airbnb Luxe and Marriott Homes & Villas have reported sustained growth in premium private stays, signaling a broader move toward properties that deliver scale, privacy and full-service experiences without the exposure of large resorts.
What today's luxury traveler is actually buying
Luxury travelers no longer want to pay for just a bedroom; they want usable space. Living areas offer layouts designed for gathering, dining and spending time together rather than serving as places to sleep between activities. Private kitchens, outdoor terraces, pools and shared living rooms have become core components, allowing guests to settle into a property and operate independently.
Length of stay reinforces that preference. Longer visits favor accommodations that support flexible schedules, private dining and days that are not structured around hotel timetables. Meals take place whenever guests choose, mornings begin without interruption and service adjusts to the group rather than dictating the pace. These high-end properties are designed for continuity rather than turnover.
In addition, guests want clarity over who enters the space, how services are delivered and how visible they are during their stay. Privacy and access are built into the experience through dedicated staff, private guides or limited guest capacity. Exclusivity functions as a practical tool rather than a marketing device, ensuring consistency, discretion and trust.
Curated collection: Ultra-private luxury escapes
The properties below reflect how luxury travel is being redefined across regions and formats. From remote safari estates and alpine lodges to floating vessels and private urban residences, each establishment represents a different approach to the same priority: space, privacy and full-service accommodations centered on the guest rather than the brand. Together, they offer a snapshot of where high-end travel is moving and what today's most discerning travelers expect.
Laughing Waters - Barbados
Laughing Waters is a 12-bedroom private estate set on 4 acres near Sandy Lane Beach, designed for large groups seeking a fully staffed villa experience. Introduced to the rental market in 2023, the 32,000-square-foot residence accommodates up to 24 guests and includes a concierge, butler, housekeeping, kitchen staff and private security. Guests also receive access to a members-only beach club and amenities at a nearby AAA Five Diamond resort. Design features are by renowned local architect Larry Warren, with interiors by London-based designer Emma Pearson.
Cabane Tortin - Switzerland
Cabane Tortin sits high above the Tortin Glacier at roughly 9,500 feet, placing guests directly on the slopes of Switzerland's 4 Vallées ski domain. The lodge operates without lift lines or shared accommodations, allowing days to be structured entirely around snow conditions rather than resort schedules. Access begins and ends at the door, making the experience less about apres culture and more about uninterrupted time on high-altitude terrain. Mountaintop saunas, glacier sundowners and immersive encounters with local cheesemakers further elevate what it means to experience the Alps in contemporary style.
Hale ʻO Ka La - Big Island, Hawaii
Hale ʻO Ka La is a five-bedroom private estate within the Mauna Kea Resort, rebuilt following the 2023 coastline fires after a reported $8 million renovation. The 5,358-square-foot property includes a saltwater pool, waterslide, swim-up bar and waterfall grotto, set within landscaped tropical grounds. From in-villa dining with private chefs to curated excursions such as whale watching, snorkeling and paddleboarding at Hapuna and Mauna Kea beaches, every stay is tailored to reflect the traveler's ideal pace.
Delfin Amazon Cruises - Iquitos, Peru
Delfin I is an ultra-exclusive Amazon expedition with just four suites and a maximum of eight guests, cruising through remote stretches of the rainforest. The experience is built around proximity rather than spectacle, with floor-to-ceiling windows, private terraces and daily guided excursions that move deep into tributaries and wildlife zones inaccessible to larger ships. The scale allows for flexible routing, quiet wildlife encounters and time on the river that feels observational rather than orchestrated, positioning the vessel as a rare option for travelers who want immersion without crowds.
Casa Bellamar - East Cape, Los Cabos
Casa Bellamar is a solar-powered oceanfront villa on the East Cape of Los Cabos, spanning approximately 2 acres with more than 400 feet of beachfront. The eight-bedroom property consists of a main house and four guest casitas, and accommodates up to 20 guests. The villa features chef and butler service, a beachfront pool, a private tennis court and facilities suited to destination weddings and extended family stays.
Cheetah Plains - Sabi Sand Nature Reserve, South Africa
Cheetah Plains operates three exclusive-use safari villas within the Sabi Sand Nature Reserve, each designed to function as a standalone lodge for a single group. Every villa comes with a full hospitality team, a private field guide and tracker, a spa therapist and its own solar-charged electric safari vehicle, eliminating shared drives and fixed schedules.
Guests set their own pace for game viewing, dining, wellness and downtime, with options ranging from guided bush walks and tailored fitness sessions to family-focused activities for children of all ages. The off-grid operation and zero-emission vehicles place sustainability at the center of the experience without limiting comfort or access.
Segera Retreat - Laikipia Plateau, Kenya
Segera Retreat is a private safari property on Kenya's Laikipia Plateau, structured as a collection of architecturally distinct villas spread across a large conservancy. Stays are customized and may include helicopter arrivals, private game drives and access to its contemporary African art collection and conservation initiatives. Solar power and regenerative land management are central to daily operations.
Nobu Villa - Caesars Palace, Las Vegas
The Nobu Villa at Caesars Palace is a controlled-access penthouse residence atop the Nobu Hotel tower. Measuring approximately 10,300 square feet, the villa includes multiple bedrooms, private fitness and media rooms, expansive living and dining areas and an outdoor terrace with a plunge pool and fire pit overlooking the Strip. Guests enjoy 24-hour butler service, in-room Nobu dining and enhanced security.
Jayne's Luxury Rentals curates a portfolio of ultra-luxury private residences in Canada's most in-demand urban and resort markets, including Toronto, Muskoka and Whistler. The company focuses on large-format, design-forward homes selected for privacy, scale and location rather than volume.
The properties function as turnkey private residences, with optional concierge coordination and local partners arranged as needed, for cooking, shopping, spa treatments and more. Many properties are discreetly marketed and used for extended stays, executive travel and multi-generational groups.
Chalet Suite - Schlosshotel Fiss, Austria
The Chalet Suite at Schlosshotel Fiss offers a private alpine residence for up to six guests, positioned a short walk from the main hotel but operating as a standalone retreat. The three-bedroom, three-bathroom chalet includes a full kitchen and separate living space, giving families or small groups privacy without losing access to the hotel's dining, spa and activity facilities.
Guests at Chalet Suite have full access to the hotel's expansive spa complex, guided wellness and fitness programming and seasonal outdoor activities across the Serfaus-Fiss-Ladis region, along with structured childcare and family-focused amenities. The appeal lies in separation without isolation, combining independent lodging with the infrastructure of a five-star mountain resort.
Where luxury travel is heading
As private stays become more common at the top end of the market, the next differentiator will be accountability. Travelers are increasingly paying attention to who owns a property, how it is operated and its impact on the surrounding community and environment. Discretion now extends beyond the guest experience to questions of stewardship, staffing and long-term sustainability.
For operators, this raises the bar. Ultra-luxury properties will be judged not only on design and service but also on transparency, consistency and their responsible operation over time. In that sense, the future of luxury travel may be defined less by where travelers go and more by how carefully those places are maintained once attention moves elsewhere.
Jennifer Allen is a retired chef turned traveler, cookbook author and nationally syndicated journalist; she's also a co-founder of Food Drink Life, where she shares expert travel tips, cruise insights and luxury destination guides. A recognized cruise expert with a deep passion for high-end experiences and off-the-beaten-path destinations, Jennifer explores the world with curiosity, depth and a storyteller's perspective. Her articles are regularly featured on the Associated Press Wire, The Washington Post, Seattle Times, MSN and more.
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These resorts put Mexican culture front and center, and it's so much more than tequila and tacos. Photo Credit: Waldorf Astoria Los Cabos Pedregal (Provided)
A new Deloitte study projects Mexico will be the fifth most visited country worldwide by 2040, as global interest drives tourism growth. Despite a drop in international travel to the United States, Americans are leaving the country more than ever, and our neighbor to the south remains a favorite destination.
A new Deloitte study projects Mexico will be the fifth most visited country worldwide by 2040, as global interest drives tourism growth. Despite a drop in international travel to the United States, Americans are leaving the country more than ever, and our neighbor to the south remains a favorite destination. Luxury and millennial travelers to Mexico seek culture, rejecting the stereotype of an all-inclusive cocoon.
Eighty-seven percent of luxury travelers look for authentic and exclusive cultural experiences when they travel, according to the Capital One Luxury Trendcast 2026 report. Approximately 60% of millennials consider authentic cultural experiences to be the most essential aspect of travel. Demand among this group for tours that feature biodiversity, cultural preservation and sustainability is expected to grow 5.1% annually from 2025 to 2030, according to Grand View Research. Throughout Mexico, resorts rise to meet the moment.
Preserving culture as tourism expands
At Waldorf Astoria Los Cabos Pedregal, the local heritage shapes the guest experience. From the hotel entrance chiseled through a mountain tunnel to the rough-hewn, lacquered doors throughout, you can't help but feel grounded in Mexico.
The establishment is walkable to major sites in Cabo San Lucas, a city quickly developing into a world-class tourist destination, with the resulting construction and traffic. Despite record visitor numbers in 2025, this hotel delightfully shuts out all the noise.
Newly renovated guest rooms pair modern amenities with the warmth of a Mexican hacienda, while cheerful bathroom tiles with original artwork by Mexican artists compete for attention. The real challenge is tearing your eyes from the ocean views that grace every room.
So much more than tequila and tacos
In the hotel's Peacock Alley, guests embark on a journey through Mexico's most important spirit, distilled from agave. Tequila, made from the blue agave plant, is just one of the over 200 varieties of agave native to Mexico.
Expert guides teach visitors about several other mezcal varieties, pointing out flavors and scents like a wine sommelier. The lesson spans history, geography and culture, paired with gourmet snacks and whale sightings in the winter months. The visit ends with a keepsake bottle of your own custom mezcal blend and a much deeper appreciation of agave in Mexican culture.
When nothing but tequila will do, visit Casa Salles in the town of Tequila, Jalisco. Adjacent to the La Guarreña distillery, which makes the renowned tequila brand El Tequileño, this 25-room boutique hotel is as close to the source as you can get. Guests enjoy exclusive tastings and tours while learning the secrets of tequila and the brand's founder, Don Jorge Salles Cuervo of the famous Cuervo family.
Living with the land
An hour up the road from Los Cabos, near Todos Santos, one hotel puts on a master class in working with the land. Opened in 2023 after a massive expansion and renovation, the Kimpton Mas Olas Resort and Spa keeps things as local as possible.
General Manager Armando Gonzalez proudly rattles off the resort's statistics, including 87% of the hotel restaurants' herbs and vegetables are grown on site. Executive Chef Sandro Falbo guides guests to the chicken coop and one of the resort's eight gardens to gather eggs and pick vegetables that his team whips into an omelette for breakfast.
Neem trees throughout the property provide shade, but that's not all they do. Their seeds are collected and pressed, creating a natural mosquito repellent supplied to guests. At the spa, visitors to the apothecary create custom scents and oils using botanicals grown on the resort.
Even the laundering process was rethought to minimize impact. A machine separates soap particles from gray water, which is diverted back to the land for irrigation. The soap is compressed and donated to a local business, which converts it into limewash paint and sells it.
Perhaps the most impressive example of Mas Olas's commitment to the land, however, was its decision to geotag each plant disturbed during the building process of its oceanfront suites. Plants were moved to the on-site nursery before being replanted in their same location following construction, which provides the suites a living roof and a secluded feel. The process salvaged 97% of the plants displaced by the construction.
Culture becomes personal
On the Nayarit coastline, culture comes with a personal touch. "At Four Seasons Resort Punta Mita, Enrique Alejos has held the Cultural Concierge role for more than two decades, sharing his knowledge of local culture, history and nature through lectures, guided experiences and community programs," shares John O'Sullivan, regional vice president and general manager.
A conversation with Alejos reveals how passionate he is about making guests fall in love with Mexico by educating them about its rich history. For families, Alejos organizes chocolate-making classes with just enough history to leave kids educated but not bored. Guests of all ages enjoy a bead workshop, where intricate bead patterns hold religious meaning for the Huichol, the indigenous people native to Nayarit state.
He is especially proud of the sea turtle protection program, which he started 15 years ago, that is coming full circle, with babies hatched in the program returning home to lay their own eggs. Like those sea turtles, guests come back year after year to dive deeper into Mexico with Alejos as their guide.
The ceremony of culture
Nearby neighbor Conrad Punta de Mita envelopes guests in Mexico's history with spiritual ceremonies rooted in ancient tradition. Guests choose between three guided experiences that draw on ancient practices from the Huichol culture. Activities include sound therapy, copal incense and native herbs.
Visitors can join a cacao ceremony led by a shaman who guides them through a meditation towards peace and spiritual awakening. Sweat out your toxins, both physical and mental, in the temascal, a traditional dome-shaped clay sauna used by several pre-Hispanic cultures. At Conrad Punta de Mita, a shaman guide leads a temascal ritual that incorporates herbal steam and song, making this a spa treatment distinct to Mexico.
A journey through time
At Chablé Yucatán, Mayan heritage is alive and well. The Mexican family-owned wellness resort is nestled in the jungle outside Mérida, occupying a former agave factory. Salvaged wood from the 16th century agave hacienda finds new life as furniture in the resort. The cultural rituals draw visitors even further back in time.
Curious visitors learn about the melipona bee, a stingless variety native to North America and sacred to the Mayan people for its medicinal properties. Visit the on-site "meliponario", which preserves a beekeeping culture dating back 3,200 years, and taste honey gathered only after a shamanic blessing.
All the cultural practices offered by Chablé Yucatán are done in conjunction with Maya community members, allowing them to lead the way in preserving and sharing their culture. Local artisans feature prominently in the hotel's boutique as well, which showcases handcrafted textiles and products.
Changing the conversation
Just 90 minutes from Tijuana lies Mexico's largest winemaking region, home to the Banyan Tree Veya, Valle de Guadalupe. With its close proximity to the border, visitors would be forgiven for thinking that Valle de Guadalupe shares the reputation and crime statistics of its northern neighbor. Thankfully, this stretch of farmland is a far cry from cartel turf wars.
Nestled among the hills lies Pictograma, the onsite winery at Banyan Tree Veya, Valle de Guadalupe. As the only winery in the Americas dedicated to the grenache grape, Pictograma exposes travelers to the many expressions of this Spanish varietal ideally suited to the area's climate. The winery challenges assumptions about what Mexican wines can do, showcasing reds, whites, rosés and even sparkling versions of grenache.
Elsewhere on the property, Baja culinary powerhouses Benito Molina and Solange Muris oversee Amapola, the resort's new fine dining option. Like Pictograma, Amapola dives deep into the land. An evolving tasting menu focuses on what's fresh and local.
A vacation with soul
Luxury travelers prioritize authenticity. More than half of millennials say the most important part of their trip is a cultural experience. In Mexico, the options are numerous, with resorts taking visitors beyond the surface to share the food, drinks, spiritual practices and sustainability efforts that make Mexico so much more than a stereotype.
Ashley Wali is a Seattle-based travel journalist and curator of Wanderlux, specializing in luxury family travel, sports tourism and wellness travel. Her work has appeared in The Seattle Times, Boston Herald, The Philadelphia Tribune, Orlando Sentinel, and many more. Recent assignments have had her slurping oysters on Cape Cod and cruising the fjords of Norway.
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Corvallis, Oregon, a small Pacific Northwest city better known for college sports and river views, is steadily building a more visible and organized LGBTQ+ scene, from campus-led Pride celebrations to inclusive downtown businesses and new community organizing efforts.
If you drive an hour and a half south of Portland through Oregon’s farm country, the foothills part to reveal Corvallis, a small city of around 60, 000 anchored by Oregon State University and bordered by the Willamette River and oak-covered hills. What has long read as a classic college town is now quietly reshaping itself as a more visible, organized, and affirming place for LGBTQ+ people who live, study, or visit there.
While Corvallis has had LGBTQ+ residents and advocates for decades, the last few years have seen new public-facing signs of inclusion: larger Pride celebrations, more explicit institutional support at Oregon State University , and a growing network of queer-friendly businesses and community events that signal a cultural shift in the city’s everyday life.
Corvallis’s LGBTQ+ momentum is deeply tied to OSU, whose main campus dominates the city’s geography and culture. OSU has been formally recognized for its LGBTQ+-inclusive policies: the university’s Pride Center and related cultural resource centers provide programming and support for lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, queer, nonbinary, and questioning students, faculty, staff, and community members.
The OSU Pride Center describes its mission as fostering safer spaces and advocacy for LGBTQ+ communities through education, peer support, and events that are open to both campus and the broader Corvallis community. In recent years, the Pride Center and the university’s Office of Institutional Diversity have expanded public programming—such as queer history talks, trans-inclusive healthcare information sessions, and intersections-of-identity workshops—that draw local residents along with students.
OSU also hosts an annual Pride-related celebration on or around campus that includes resource fairs, performances, and visibility events led by student groups and staff. While this programming is rooted in the university, it functions as one of the most visible LGBTQ+ cultural calendars in Corvallis, signaling to visitors that the city has recognizable queer infrastructure even if it does not yet have a dense “gayborhood. ”
Beyond on-campus initiatives, OSU has taken public positions on LGBTQ+ inclusion, such as publishing guidance documents and statements affirming its support for transgender students and employees. These institutional commitments matter in a city where the university is the largest employer and shapes much of the local climate.
Corvallis sits in Benton County, a politically mixed but generally progressive county that has seen debates over LGBTQ+ rights in recent years, particularly around transgender inclusion. In 2022 and 2023, statewide conversations unfolded in Oregon around proposed restrictions and rhetorical attacks on transgender people, echoing national campaigns. Although these efforts were largely legislative and cultural rather than local ballot measures in Corvallis itself, they shaped the context in which Corvallis organizations and leaders have worked to affirm LGBTQ+ inclusion.
Oregon, as a state, has pursued a relatively strong legal framework protecting LGBTQ+ people, including statewide nondiscrimination protections in housing, employment, and public accommodations, as well as measures affirming access to gender-affirming healthcare. Advocacy organizations such as Basic Rights Oregon have emphasized the role of local communities, including smaller cities like Corvallis, in maintaining welcoming environments amid national anti-LGBTQ+ rhetoric.
Local government and civic institutions in Corvallis have signaled alignment with this statewide posture. The City of Corvallis has adopted non-discrimination language that includes sexual orientation and gender identity in municipal employment policies and public statements. Benton County’s health and social service agencies, which serve Corvallis residents, have participated in statewide efforts to improve services for LGBTQ+ youth, including those who are transgender or nonbinary.
While Corvallis does not yet have a marquee, nationally known Pride parade, local Pride observances have grown, often in partnership with OSU and grassroots groups. Community organizers have held Pride-themed gatherings, educational events, and visibility campaigns in recent Junes, often centered around inclusive venues and public spaces near downtown.
Visitors to Corvallis will not find a strip of rainbow-flagged bars on the scale of larger cities, but they will encounter a network of queer-affirming businesses, arts spaces, and organizations that contribute to a sense of everyday safety and belonging.
The city’s compact downtown—clustered around Madison Avenue and Second Street—features locally owned cafés, bars, restaurants, bookstores, and arts venues that openly embrace LGBTQ+ patrons and often collaborate with campus-based groups. Some businesses host drag shows, queer-led open mics, and inclusive trivia nights and fundraisers, frequently promoted through local social media and university channels. Specific event lineups and participating venues vary year to year and should be verified close to travel dates.
The presence of OSU’s cultural resource centers, including the Pride Center and the Women and Gender Center, also shapes the city’s wider environment. These centers collaborate with local organizations to host film screenings, discussions, and art events that foreground LGBTQ+ perspectives and are open to community members beyond the university.
For queer travelers, this means that much of Corvallis’s LGBTQ+ life is integrated into mixed spaces—coffee shops with inclusive signage, bookstores that carry queer authors, art galleries featuring local LGBTQ+ artists, and community events where pronoun pins and gender-inclusive language are normalized.
Corvallis’s emerging LGBTQ+ story is also shaped by its focus on education and young people. OSU’s policies and support systems for LGBTQ+ students intersect with local school districts and youth services to create a wider network of affirming spaces.
The Corvallis School District has adopted anti-bullying policies that include protections based on sexual orientation and gender identity, reflecting statewide standards and guidance. Oregon law requires school districts to address harassment and bias, including incidents targeting LGBTQ+ students. These frameworks, combined with local educators and counselors who collaborate with OSU and regional nonprofits, contribute to a climate that signals safety to queer and transgender youth.
Community mental health and health providers in Benton County have also engaged in training and outreach around LGBTQ+ cultural competency, particularly related to transgender healthcare access and youth mental health. The Oregon Health Authority has promoted guidelines and resources for gender-affirming care, which local providers in Corvallis can draw on.
For travelers, especially those considering a longer stay, study, or relocation, this educational and healthcare landscape matters. It suggests that Corvallis is not only a place to visit briefly, but also a community where LGBTQ+ people can potentially build sustained lives with institutional backing.
Corvallis will not compete with Portland or Seattle for nightlife density or a global Pride headliner. Its draw for LGBTQ+ travelers lies elsewhere: in scenic riverfront parks, hiking trails just minutes from downtown, a strong local food and craft beer culture, and an evolving queer presence embedded in a highly walkable, low-rise cityscape.
The Willamette Riverfront Commemorative Park offers paths and green space that become informal gathering spots in warmer months, while nearby natural areas such as Bald Hill and Chip Ross Park provide accessible hikes and viewpoints over the valley. These outdoor spaces appeal to visitors who value both nature and the ability to return to a town center where inclusive businesses and campus resources are within close reach.
Seasonally, the best time for queer travelers who want to tap into local LGBTQ+ life is late spring through early fall, when OSU is in session for at least part of that window and when Pride events, resource fairs, and community gatherings are most likely to appear on the calendar. Checking the OSU Pride Center website and Visit Corvallis before travel can help visitors match their trip to relevant events.
For queer visitors traveling with families or in intergenerational groups, Corvallis’s slower pace and emphasis on education and outdoor activities may be especially appealing. The presence of an established university Pride Center, visibly inclusive campus messaging, and local institutions committed to non-discrimination can create a sense of security for transgender people, nonbinary people, and others whose safety is often a concern when visiting smaller cities.
Corvallis is not a utopia; like many small and mid-sized North American cities, it exists within broader national tensions over LGBTQ+ rights, particularly around transgender inclusion and school policies. Yet its combination of state-level protections, a major university with explicit LGBTQ+ commitments, growing Pride programming, and an increasingly visible network of queer-affirming spaces marks it as a city moving toward deeper inclusion rather than away from it.
For LGBTQ+ travelers looking beyond the usual big-name destinations, Corvallis offers an opportunity to experience this evolution up close: to attend a campus event that doubles as community gathering, to share a meal or a drink in a venue that quietly signals “all are welcome, ” and to meet people—students, faculty, longtime residents—who are actively making a small city feel more livable for queer and transgender people.
In that sense, Corvallis represents a broader story unfolding in many North American towns and small cities: LGBTQ+ inclusion emerging not from a single marquee event, but through steady cultural change, institutional commitments, and the daily choices of businesses, schools, and residents. For travelers who care about where that story goes next, this river town in Oregon’s Willamette Valley is worth a closer look.
Once a sleepy port city better known for freight trains than drag queens, Tacoma, Washington has quietly become one of the fastest-rising LGBTQ+ travel hot spots in North America.
There was a time when the only reason many people passed through Tacoma was to get from Seattle to somewhere else. Now, queer travelers are intentionally stopping, staying, and — in many cases — never wanting to leave.
In late 2025, LGBTQ+ booking platform misterb&b reported that Tacoma, Washington topped its list of “most unusual cities LGBTQ+ travelers are flocking to” for 2025, with a 755% year-over-year increase in LGBTQ+ travel interest. That puts this once-overlooked port town ahead of bigger-name surprises like Salt Lake City and Hamilton, Ontario in the platform’s post-Pride data.
For a place long saddled with the “smell of Tacoma” joke, that is one serious queer rebrand.
Tacoma has always had grit: industrial waterfronts, rail lines, and working-class neighborhoods in the shadow of Mount Rainier. But over the past few years, its reputation has shifted from “Seattle’s cheaper cousin” to a standalone arts city, thanks to a dense cluster of museums, galleries, and indie spaces downtown and along the Hilltop and 6th Avenue corridors.
The City of Tacoma has formally branded the area the Tacoma Art District anchored by the Museum of Glass, Tacoma Art Museum, and dozens of smaller venues, and emphasizes that the city’s creative community is “diverse, experimental, and community-driven. ” While not marketed as “the queer district, ” LGBTQ+ residents and travelers have flocked to this arts ecosystem, mirroring patterns seen in legacy gayborhoods like Asbury Park and Provincetown, where art and queer life grow up entwined.
According to Travel Tacoma – Mt. Rainier Tourism and Sports, independent venues and street festivals have helped the city shed its industrial-only identity and attract visitors seeking “authentic, creative urban neighborhoods” over polished, big-brand districts. For LGBTQ+ travelers burned out on corporate Pride floats, that authenticity is a big part of the draw.
The 755% spike in interest on misterb&b is not a cute rounding error. The company describes it as a “mind‑blowing” jump and calls Tacoma “an unapologetically queer community” with “thriving arts” and “affordable rents” that make it especially attractive to LGBTQ+ travelers and remote workers.
That affordability is real in relative terms: while Tacoma’s housing costs have risen, they remain lower than in nearby Seattle, leading a significant number of younger renters, including LGBTQ+ people, to decamp south along Puget Sound. This kind of “spillover migration” has been documented in queer travel writing as a driver of new gayborhoods, similar to how LGBTQ+ people have transformed smaller cities like Asbury Park and New Hope over the last decade.
misterb&b says its post-Pride 2025 data shows LGBTQ+ travelers are “slowly leaving legacy Pride capitals like San Francisco and Berlin in favor of off‑the‑radar gems” — naming Tacoma as the number one example of that trend. That context matters: Tacoma’s glow-up is not just local hype; it is part of a broader shift in how and where queer people vacation.
Unlike long-established gay destinations built around single, historic gayborhoods, Tacoma’s queer scene is decentralized and collaborative.
Several local organizations and venues have been quietly laying groundwork for years:
- Rainbow Center Tacoma has operated as an LGBTQ+ community hub since the 1990s, providing support services, advocacy, and education, and organizing events such as Tacoma Pride Festival in partnership with the city.
- The Tacoma Pride Festival, coordinated by Rainbow Center and the City of Tacoma, has grown into a major summer event, bringing performances, resource booths, and nightlife spillover to downtown streets each July.
- Local nightlife and arts spaces in neighborhoods like Hilltop, 6th Avenue, and the stadium district host drag shows, queer dance nights, and open mics, contributing to what misterb&b calls Tacoma’s “unapologetically queer community energy. ”
This mix of formal nonprofits, community festivals, and scrappy nightlife feels familiar to anyone who has watched a gayborhood form in real time. As LGBTQ+ travel coverage has noted in other cities, new queer scenes often arise where community centers, advocacy groups, and small businesses intersect.
Part of Tacoma’s surprise factor comes from the wider political map. While Washington State is broadly supportive of LGBTQ+ rights — including marriage equality, anti‑discrimination protections, and transgender‑inclusive policies — it sits in a region where queer and transgender people still face intense political blowback across state lines.
The Human Rights Campaign State Equality Index consistently scores Washington among the strongest states for LGBTQ+ equality, citing comprehensive non‑discrimination laws and protections in housing, employment, and public accommodations. That legal framework gives Tacoma a firm baseline of safety that many smaller, up‑and‑coming queer destinations lack.
At the same time, Tacoma’s industrial roots and working‑class demographics set it apart from polished, high‑income gay capitals, echoing what LGBTQ+ travel guides describe in cities like Salt Lake City and Hamilton: places that “defy reputation” and offer a less curated, more local Pride feeling.
In explaining its 2025 rankings, misterb&b notes that many users are now seeking “off‑the‑radar gems” instead of the usual roster of San Francisco, New York, and Berlin. That observation tracks with broader travel reporting that highlights “surprising gayborhoods” and smaller cities as new frontiers for Pride month trips.
Those pieces, while often focused on U. S. and Canadian destinations, point to consistent trends:
- Queer travelers want affordability and are more willing to mix urban culture with nearby outdoor escapes. - Many are bored with “copy‑paste” downtown blocks and are seeking art‑driven, grassroots scenes. - Destinations with active community centers and advocacy groups feel safer and more meaningful than places offering only nightlife.
Tacoma checks all three boxes. It is relatively more affordable than its immediate big‑city neighbor, has a walkable museum core and emerging nightlife, and offers quick access to Mount Rainier National Park and the southern Puget Sound coastline. For queer hikers, climbers, and beach wanderers, it combines city comforts with easy day trips into forests and mountains — something misterb&b also flagged as a selling point in spotlighting destinations like Salt Lake City.
What makes Tacoma feel distinct from more famous gayborhoods is not just that it’s smaller; it’s that its queer culture is woven into a broader civic fabric, not confined to a few rainbow‑flagged blocks.
The City of Tacoma officially recognizes Pride month, collaborates on Tacoma Pride Festival, and features LGBTQ+ events in its public events calendars. Rainbow Center’s educational programs work directly with local businesses and institutions, encouraging inclusive practices and visible support for LGBTQ+ residents and visitors.
Meanwhile, regional and national LGBTQ+ travel guides have started to name‑check Tacoma in the same breath as longer‑standing queer centers in the Pacific Northwest. Articles listing “best gay cities” and “surprising gayborhoods” now commonly include nearby Seattle as a classic favorite but nod to Tacoma as a rising alternative where queer people can still afford to live, create, and open businesses.
The result is an atmosphere where LGBTQ+ visitors might not find the endless bar strip of a Wilton Manors or Castro, but will instead encounter queer art shows, drag performances in mixed crowds, affirming bookstores, and community events threaded through multiple neighborhoods. That sprawling, integrated vibe is very 2026: less ghettoized, more blended, and deeply rooted in local culture.
To understand why Tacoma feels so “wait, this town is queer now? !” it helps to remember what traditional LGBTQ+ destinations look like in 2026.
Travel features still celebrate San Francisco, Provincetown, Fort Lauderdale, Key West, and Palm Springs as global queer capitals, with dense gayborhoods, decades of history, and entire economies built around LGBTQ+ tourism. Lists of “gayest cities” also highlight smaller but long‑established hubs like Asbury Park, New Hope, and Wilton Manors — places where rainbow flags and queer nightlife are anything but new.
Tacoma is not trying to be the next Castro, and it is nowhere near that level of saturation. Its surprise factor lies in the fact that it is none of the above: not a coastal resort, not a decades‑old gay enclave, and not a giant city. It is a mid‑sized port town that has quietly become, according to real traveler behavior, one of the most in‑demand LGBTQ+ city breaks on a major global booking platform.
For queer travelers, that makes Tacoma something rare: a city where the Pride scene is emerging in real time, where you can still watch the glow-up instead of just reading about it after the fact.
If the trend lines hold, Tacoma’s queer profile will only rise. misterb&b’s 2025 data suggests that LGBTQ+ travelers are not dabbling; they are booking in significant numbers. Local organizations like Rainbow Center provide stability and safety nets that are crucial as more transgender people, queer couples, and chosen families consider the city as a potential home.
And Washington’s strong legal protections for LGBTQ+ residents mean that unlike some “cool but precarious” scenes popping up in hostile states, Tacoma’s sparkle rests on more solid ground.
For now, Tacoma remains perfectly balanced on that sweet spot between underground discovery and fully on the map. You can still show up and feel like you’ve found something your big‑city friends haven’t claimed yet: a queer‑affirming, arts‑driven port city where nobody expects you to have a perfect Pride outfit — but someone will absolutely compliment your thrift‑store jacket at a gallery opening.
And if your group chat responds, “Wait, Tacoma is queer now? !” you can just send them a photo of Mount Rainier glowing in the background of a street‑level drag show and say: it always was. The rest of us are just catching up.
Tucked between Toronto, Montréal, and Ottawa, Kingston, Ontario has quietly become one of North America’s most promising emerging LGBTQ-friendly city breaks — with Pride on the lake, drag in historic limestone halls, and policies that back up the rainbow flags
If Toronto is the loud, sequined older cousin of Canadian queer travel, Kingston is the younger, artsy one who shows up in vintage denim and knows every local band,.
Kingston is not yet a headliner on queer travel lists dominated by Montréal, Toronto, and Vancouver, but the ingredients are there: legal protections, visible community organizations, an annual Pride that spills right onto Lake Ontario, and a creative, youth-driven culture that treats LGBTQ+ inclusion as a given rather than a marketing slogan.
Kingston sits about halfway between Toronto and Montréal along Highway 401 and the VIA Rail line, with regular trains and buses linking it to all three major cities in a few hours. It’s also the gateway to the Thousand Islands region, with ferries heading out into the St. Lawrence River and Lake Ontario — which means yes, your Pride weekend can absolutely involve a boat.
The city is home to around 136, 000 people and has a disproportionately large student population thanks to Queen’s University, St. Lawrence College, and the Royal Military College of Canada. In practical terms, that means a lot of young adults, an energized nightlife and arts scene, and a political climate where LGBTQ+ issues are not fringe, but squarely on the agenda.
For queer travelers, safety and dignity matter far more than a cute drag brunch. Kingston’s recent moves on equity are a big reason it deserves a closer look.
In 2021, Kingston adopted a corporate Equity, Diversity and Inclusion strategy that explicitly commits the municipality to better support LGBTQ+ residents, including staff training, inclusive hiring, and ongoing consultation with community members. The city’s “Equity, Diversity and Inclusion for a Thriving Kingston” report names sexual orientation and gender identity as protected dimensions and calls for continuous engagement with LGBTQ+ communities, not just one-off campaigns.
This is layered on top of Ontario’s Human Rights Code, which has explicitly protected gender identity and gender expression since 2012, and Canada’s federal legal framework, which recognizes marriage equality and prohibits discrimination on the basis of sexual orientation and gender identity in key areas like employment and housing.
At the more symbolic but still meaningful end of the spectrum, Kingston permanently installed a rainbow crosswalk near city hall in 2019 and has since added a trans flag crosswalk in support of transgender and gender-diverse people, after consultation with local advocates. City hall and several municipal buildings routinely raise the Progress Pride flag for Pride Month and Trans Day of Visibility, with council members attending public ceremonies and using the events to reaffirm support for LGBTQ+ residents.
Now, onto the fun part: what it actually feels like to be queer in Kingston for a weekend.
The local Pride organization, Kingston Pride Inc. , runs an annual June festival that includes a march, a community fair, and waterfront events along Confederation Park and Ontario Street. In recent years, Kingston Pride has added a Pride on the River boat cruise, outdoor drag shows, and sober social events, reflecting the community’s call for more inclusive, accessible programming.
The 2024 Kingston Pride parade drew hundreds of people, with support from local unions, small businesses, and all three post‑secondary institutions. While those numbers are modest compared with Toronto, the density of rainbow signs in shop windows, the presence of families with young children, and the visible involvement of transgender, nonbinary, and Two-Spirit people created a vibe many attendees described as “intimate” and “genuinely community‑driven. ”
Throughout the year, Kingston Pride and partner organizations host events ranging from drag bingo to queer film screenings and a winter Pride skate at Springer Market Square. The square itself — a historic stone plaza overlooked by city hall — becomes an ice rink in colder months, and the city has promoted it explicitly as a safe, welcoming space for LGBTQ+ residents during winter programming.
Kingston’s size means there is no dedicated “gayborhood” like Toronto’s Church-Wellesley or Montréal’s Village, but queer life is woven through its downtown streets, campus spaces, and arts venues.
Queen’s University’s Levana Gender Advocacy Centre and the Education on Queer Issues Project run peer support, social events, and advocacy for students, contributing to a campus culture where LGBTQ+ identities are visible and increasingly affirmed. St. Lawrence College has its own Equity, Diversity and Inclusion framework including support for 2SLGBTQ+ students, and the Royal Military College has, in recent years, hosted Pride events and public discussions about inclusion in the Canadian Armed Forces.
Off campus, the Kingston Frontenac Public Library hosts queer book clubs, drag story hours, and Trans Day of Visibility displays curated with input from local transgender and nonbinary residents. These public, intergenerational events not only provide options for families and elders but also subtly signal to visitors that queer and trans stories are valued in civic spaces.
The performance scene is where Kingston really overachieves for its size. The city’s historic limestone downtown is dotted with venues that regularly host drag, burlesque, and queer‑centric shows.
- The Grad Club regularly features drag nights and LGBTQ+ musicians, often in collaboration with student groups.
- Kingston Grand Theatre has staged touring productions featuring queer stories and performers, including shows scheduled during Pride Month.
- At bars like The Toucan, Something in the Water Brewing Co. , and other indie venues, local drag artists like Kingston‑based queens and kings rotate through themed nights, often benefiting community causes like queer youth programs.
These cabaret‑style nights aren’t just entertainment; they are social glue for the city’s LGBTQ+ population — a mix of students, long‑time locals, military families, and newcomers from larger cities who have moved for affordability and quality of life.
From a practical standpoint, queer travelers often want to know: if something goes wrong, will I be okay here?
Healthcare in Kingston is anchored by Kingston Health Sciences Centre , which has publicly committed to improving care for gender-diverse and LGBTQ+ patients through its Equity, Diversity and Inclusion strategy. KHSC works with community groups on training around pronouns, discrimination, and inclusive care, and supports referrals for gender-affirming services available through provincial networks.
The HIV/AIDS Regional Services Kingston provides support, harm reduction, and community-building programs for people living with or at risk of HIV, with explicit focus on gay, bisexual, and other men who have sex with men, as well as people who use drugs and people facing housing precarity. They partner with Kingston Pride and local healthcare providers for testing campaigns and educational events, meaning visitors will find a service ecosystem that understands LGBTQ+ sexual health.
On the policing side, Kingston Police has an Equity, Diversity and Inclusion Office and has participated in Pride events and community dialogues regarding police presence at Pride, a contentious issue in many cities. Activists in Kingston, as elsewhere, have debated the role of law enforcement in queer spaces, with some events choosing to limit formal police involvement in order to prioritize the comfort of Black, Indigenous, and otherwise marginalized LGBTQ+ people.
For transgender and gender-diverse people, local organizers have created peer support groups, informal name‑change clinics, and mutual aid for access to binders, clothing, and travel for medical appointments. While many specialized medical services still require travel to larger centres like Toronto or Ottawa, the presence of community-based support can make short stays in Kingston feel noticeably more grounded for visiting transgender people.
Imagine this: you arrive by train at Kingston’s historic station, stroll down to a waterfront hotel or a cozy downtown inn, and by sunset you’re sipping a local cider on a patio while watching the Wolfe Island ferry slide across Lake Ontario.
Daytime Kingston is all about stone and water: you can tour Fort Henry, a 19th‑century military fortress with sweeping lake views, or wander the campus of Queen’s University, whose ivy‑draped buildings could pass for a small British city. While these sites are not explicitly queer, Kingston’s layered history includes LGBTQ+ people in its storytelling more than many small cities; for instance, local museums and heritage organizations have partnered with Queen’s researchers on projects highlighting queer histories in the region.
On a Pride weekend in June, you might:
- Join the Pride march down Princess Street, flanked by rainbow-clad locals cheering from café doorways.
- Hit the community fair in Confederation Park, where booths range from queer student groups to local artisans and social services.
- Book an evening Pride cruise on the St. Lawrence, complete with DJ, drag performances, and the utterly unnecessary but deeply correct experience of seeing a giant Progress Pride flag ripple in the lakeside wind.
Outside Pride season, a weekend could include a drag show at the Grad Club, a queer poetry or storytelling night at a downtown café, and a quiet Sunday morning browsing the Memorial Centre Farmers’ Market, where queer couples and families blend seamlessly into the crowd.
Kingston also makes a convenient base for exploring the Thousand Islands — you can spend a day kayaking or taking a boat tour and still be back in time for evening drag bingo.
If you’re used to big, famous gay destinations — Toronto’s Church Street, Montréal’s Sainte-Catherine, Vancouver’s Davie Village — Kingston might sound almost too quiet. Yet that’s exactly its appeal.
Travel publications have increasingly encouraged LGBTQ+ visitors to look beyond marquee cities toward smaller, more sustainable destinations that still offer legal protections and established community networks. Kingston fits that trend: it is large enough to provide hospitals, public transit, and a year‑round events calendar, but small enough that you’re likely to run into the same faces at the Pride parade, the drag show, and the Sunday market.
The city’s affordability relative to Toronto and Ottawa has also attracted artists, students, and early‑career professionals, including LGBTQ+ people who want to own homes or studios without leaving queer community behind. That influx brings with it new queer‑owned small businesses, more diverse nightlife, and a steady trickle of programming that reflects intersectional identities — from events centering queer people of colour to accessible, sober‑friendly spaces.
Because Kingston is not yet a “gay tourism brand, ” visitors are less likely to be treated as a niche market and more as part of the city’s broader fabric. For some travelers — especially LGBTQ+ people who are disabled, racialized, or simply over the circuit‑party vibe — that can feel refreshingly low‑pressure.
This isn’t a place where you’ll find a rainbow‑flagged bar on every corner. Instead, Kingston offers a slower, more integrated kind of queer travel: you step into the city’s daily life, and some of that life is openly, joyfully LGBTQ+. From drag on campus to Pride flags on century‑old limestone porches, the message is clear — you are not a side note here.
For travelers looking to sidestep the mega‑destinations without sacrificing safety, community, or a good waterfront patio, Kingston quietly checks all the boxes. And if you go now, you can still say you knew about it before everyone else.
David Bowie’s childhood home could soon become a tourist attraction
David Bowie’s bedroom could soon be London’s newest tourist attraction.
The house where the musician grew from suburban schoolboy to rock ‘n’ roll starman has been bought by a charity that plans to open it to the public.
The Heritage of London Trust said Thursday that the 19th-century railway worker’s cottage in the south London suburb of Bromley will be restored to its 1960s decor and open to the public next year.
Visitors will be able to visit the 9-foot by 10-foot (2.7-meter by 3-meter) bedroom, “where a spark became a flame,” the charity said. The trust hasn't said how much it paid for the house.
Bowie, born David Jones, lived in the house from 1955, when he was 8, until 1967, when he was a 20-year-old working musician hungry for fame.
Geoffrey Marsh, co-curator of the Victoria and Albert Museum’s hit 2013 exhibition “David Bowie Is," said the house is where "Bowie evolved from an ordinary suburban schoolboy to the beginnings of an extraordinary international stardom.
“As he said, ‘I spent so much time in my bedroom, it really was my entire world. I had books up there, my music up there, my record player.'"
From Bromley, Bowie went on a creative journey that took him to Philadelphia, Berlin and New York, through eye-popping style changes and musical genres from folk-rock to glam, soul, electronica and new wave. His songbook includes classics such as “Space Oddity,” “Changes,” “Life on Mars,” “Starman,” “Young Americans” and “Heroes.”
The house project, backed by Bowie’s estate, has received a 500,000 pound ($670,000) charity grant and is seeking donations from the public. The heritage trust aims to open the house in late 2027 for public visits and creative workshops for children.
The announcement came as fans mark a decade since Bowie’s death at age 69 on Jan. 10, 2016, two days after the release of his final album, “Blackstar.”
A decade on, Bowie’s cultural legacy in music, style and design continues to inspire. His 90,000-item archive opened to the public last year at the V&A Museum's David Bowie Centre in east London.
George Underwood, a childhood friend, said that the house was where “we spent so much time together, listening to and playing music.
“I’ve heard a lot of people say David’s music saved them or changed their life,” he said in a statement. “It’s amazing that he could do that and even more amazing that it all started here, from such small beginnings, in this house. We were dreamers, and look what he became.”
by Jill Lawless
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More than 770,000 foreign visitors traveled to Ireland in August 2025. Crowded crosswalks, chaotic Temple Bar crowds and packed museums still define a first trip to Dublin. But for a growing number of travelers, Ireland's capital is no longer the main draw.
More than 770,000 foreign visitors traveled to Ireland in August 2025. Crowded crosswalks, chaotic Temple Bar crowds and packed museums still define a first trip to Dublin. But for a growing number of travelers, Ireland's capital is no longer the main draw.
Along the country's northwest edge, County Donegal is emerging as a quieter alternative. Visitors stay an average of seven nights in Donegal, longer than in most parts of Ireland, according to Fáilte Ireland, drawn by wide Atlantic beaches, sea cliffs and small towns that replace urban bustle.
For repeat visitors to Ireland or travelers who want to avoid crowds, Donegal offers the country's landscapes, culture and hospitality at a slower pace, shifting the focus from city streets to coastline, countryside and daily local life.
Donegal draws travelers beyond Dublin
Dublin still charms with music-filled streets and major cultural sights. It's a natural starting point for first-time visitors. But travel styles evolve, and many travelers begin to seek something quieter.
Long schedules and packed itineraries can give way to trips built around fewer stops and more time in each place. For some, the appeal shifts toward nature, small towns and the chance to experience everyday life rather than ticking off landmarks.
That is where Donegal steps in. Crowds thin as roads leave the main highways, and prices for rooms and meals often drop compared with Ireland's larger cities. The slower pace, combined with time to linger over a pint or a sea view, becomes part of the draw.
Donegal is closer than it looks on the map
Despite its far-north location, County Donegal is more accessible from Dublin than many travelers expect. Driving from Dublin to Letterkenny or Donegal Town typically takes three-and-a-half to four hours, mostly on motorways and primary roads, with service stations and rest stops along the route.
For travelers without a car, long-distance bus services run daily from Dublin's city center and airport to towns including Letterkenny, Donegal Town and Ballyshannon. Travel times typically range from four-and-a-half to five-and-a-half hours, depending on the route.
There are also short domestic flights from Dublin to Donegal Airport, with flight times of about one hour, followed by regional buses or car hire to reach coastal areas. The range of transport options makes Donegal a practical extension to a Dublin trip, even for visitors with limited time.
Stops that capture Donegal's landscape and culture
The appeal of Donegal lies in its blend of wildlife, coastline, food and drink projects, local history and long-standing pubs. A handful of well-chosen stops help explain how all these elements are closely connected along Ireland's northwest coast.
Wild Ireland
Wild Ireland is a wildlife sanctuary that focuses on species native to Ireland, many of which have disappeared from the island over the centuries. Set in a wooded valley, the reserve features wide, naturalistic enclosures connected by walking paths rather than traditional zoo exhibits.
The sanctuary has rescued more than 100 animals, including brown bears, wolves and wild boar, and has planted over 10,000 trees as part of its rewilding efforts. Staff share the animals' individual rescue stories alongside explanations of Ireland's ecological past, blending conservation education with local history and mythology.
Wild Ireland welcomes around 130,000 visitors every year, according to the sanctuary. It draws families, photographers and travelers interested in conservation.
Fanad Lighthouse
Standing on a rocky headland between Lough Swilly and Mulroy Bay, Fanad Lighthouse marks one of Donegal's most prominent coastal points. The white tower and adjoining keeper's cottages sit above jagged Atlantic rocks, making the site both a navigational landmark and one of the county's most recognizable structures.
The lighthouse dates to 1817 and was built after a series of shipwrecks off the Fanad coast. Today, visitors can walk the headland for views across the Atlantic or join guided tours when available to climb the tower and learn about lighthouse keeping along Ireland's remote northwest shore.
Ardara Distillery
Near the village of Ardara in southwest Donegal, Ardara Distillery is part of Ireland's growing craft whiskey and poitin revival, grounded in a region long associated with illicit distilling. Tours are deliberately small and center around process and place. Visitors learn how spirits are made, hear stories about the area's past and take part in tastings that reflect Donegal's landscape and climate.
Unlike many distilleries, Ardara has chosen not to operate an onsite cafe or restaurant, encouraging guests to continue into the village to eat, drink and support local businesses. The approach reflects a broader commitment to keeping tourism activities connected to the surrounding community, rather than concentrating them in a single destination.
Donegal County Museum
Located in Letterkenny, Donegal County Museum provides essential context for understanding the landscapes and communities visitors encounter across the county. Exhibits focus on everyday life as much as major events, covering fishing, farming, textiles and the long cycle of emigration, migration and return that has shaped Donegal families for generations.
An hour here early in a trip adds depth to the rest of a Donegal itinerary, turning scenic drives and ferry crossings into reminders of centuries of work, movement and survival rather than simple photo opportunities.
Olde Glen Bar
Set along a quiet country road near Carrigart on Donegal's north coast, the Olde Glen Bar offers a glimpse of rural pub life that can be hard to find in Ireland's cities. The low-slung building has served the local community for decades, drawing nearby residents as easily as curious travelers to its pints and traditional music sessions.
The Olde Glen Bar also operates a small restaurant focused on classic pub fare made with locally sourced ingredients and offers on-site accommodations for overnight guests. For travelers exploring Donegal by car, it provides a convenient base and a quieter alternative to busier towns, combining food, music and lodging in one rural stop.
A different way to see Ireland
For travelers willing to look beyond Dublin, County Donegal offers a quieter counterpoint. Along its Atlantic edge, wildlife sanctuaries, historic lighthouses, small distilleries, local museums and long-standing pubs combine landscape with daily life. The result is an Ireland that feels less hurried and more rooted, especially for repeat visitors seeking depth over crowds.
Jessy Hamel is a syndicated travel writer and the creator of Tartan & Teacups, a travel site that inspires women to stop waiting and start traveling. She covers destinations across the United Kingdom and Europe, with a focus on Scotland, Ireland, Italy and Portugal.
by Jessica Hamel
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The Mid-Atlantic Leather Weekend (MAL) returns to Washington, D.C. from January 16 to 19, 2026, drawing thousands of LGBTQ+ participants for leather-themed events, contests, and parties hosted by Centaur MC.
The Mid-Atlantic Leather Weekend is set to take place from Friday, January 16, 2026, to Monday, January 19, 2026, in Washington, D.C., transforming the nation's capital into a hub for leather and kink enthusiasts. This annual gathering, now attracting thousands of participants, features a mix of social events, circuit parties, leather meet-ups, and the flagship Mr. MAL Contest, all centered around the Hyatt Regency on Capitol Hill as the host hotel. Attendees must be 21 years or older, with proof of age required for wristband access to sponsored activities.
Three-day weekend passes are already available for purchase, granting entry to core events while emphasizing that lost or broken wristbands require additional fees for replacement. The event's official website provides details on hotels, day passes, and schedules, noting that the host hotel books up months in advance.
At the core of MAL is the historic Leather Cocktails, a formal Saturday evening social that serves as the weekend's lynchpin, from which all other events have evolved. Organized by the DC-based Centaur MC, additional official programming includes a bustling Leather Exhibit Hall with over 23 vendors offering customized leather goods and kink toys, Sunday brunch, and the Mr. MAL Contest.
KINETIC Presents is producing the only four official MAL main events, running from Thursday, January 15, 2026, at 10:00 p.m. through Monday, January 19, 2026, at 4:00 a.m., across Washington, D.C. venues. These LGBTQ+ creator-led events feature dedicated play zones, new dark and sweaty venues, VIP areas, and express entry for pass holders, with all MAL Full Weekend Package holders granted access to the Sunday Closing Party. Tickets are non-refundable and non-transferable once wristbands are issued, with re-entry policies varying by pass type.
Other notable attractions include the Mr. International Rubber Cocktail Party, the Onyx Show, the Parade of Colours, and the Parade of Titleholders from around the world, fostering a global sense of community.
MAL traces its roots to 1976, when it began as an impromptu cocktail party among Leathermen at New York’s Waldorf Astoria hotel. The event quickly grew, moving to east coast bars before settling in Washington, D.C., in the mid-1980s under Centaur MC, who introduced the contest and expanded it into a major weekend destination. Over decades, it has evolved from a small gathering into a cornerstone of leather culture, emphasizing safe, consensual exploration within the LGBTQ+ community.
MAL provides an affirming space for leather, kink, and fetish communities, including gay, bisexual, transgender, and other queer individuals who participate in its inclusive programming. Nearby venues enhance the experience, such as the leather/kink-focused bar at 1357B U St NW , offering neon-lit gear nights, and underground clubs like the one at 2001 14th St NW with late-night energy. Hotels like the design-forward boutique at 2121 P St NW near Logan Circle provide convenient bases with rooftop pools and proximity to nightlife.
Participants highlight MAL's role in building connections and visibility for kink-positive identities within the broader LGBTQ+ spectrum, with events designed for uninhibited, consensual pleasure. As tickets sell out quickly, early planning is recommended for this enduring tradition.
Odyssey Pride has unveiled details for what it describes as the world's first cruise exclusively designed for the Black gay community, setting sail on October 31, 2026, from San Juan aboard Virgin Voyages' Valiant Lady.
Odyssey Pride, an event organizer specializing in experiences for the Black LGBTQ+ community, has announced the launch of what it calls the world's first cruise tailored specifically for Black gay men. The seven-day, all-inclusive voyage will depart from San Juan, Puerto Rico, on October 31, 2026, aboard Virgin Voyages' Valiant Lady, following a pre-party on October 30. Ports of call include Curaçao, Aruba, Martinique, and St. Kitts & Nevis, offering opportunities for beach excursions and cultural exploration.
This cruise builds on the evolution of LGBTQ+ charter cruises, which have provided safe, celebratory spaces for queer travelers since the 1970s. Early examples include a 1974 charter of the MS Renaissance by New York City's Islanders Club, which carried nearly 474 passengers—mostly gay men under 35 from California, New York, and Florida—on a discreet Caribbean voyage from Port Everglades. Described in a 1975 New York Times article as a "floating Pride festival," it emphasized mutual respect and marked a shift post-Stonewall, though passengers prioritized discretion amid widespread societal prejudice.
By 1986, RSVP Vacations, founded by Kevin J. Messier, popularized the concept with its first cruise, "A Cruise to Remember," aboard the Bermuda Star from New Orleans, hosting 750 guests. RSVP is often credited as the originator of modern gay and lesbian cruises, evolving from discreet sailings to vibrant, open celebrations. Today, companies like Atlantis Events, Olivia Travel, and VACAYA dominate the market, chartering ships from lines such as Virgin Voyages, Celebrity Cruises, and Royal Caribbean for all-LGBTQ+ itineraries.
The Odyssey Pride cruise promises a dynamic mix of relaxation and high-energy events. Entertainment will feature a Grammy Award-winning R&B legend, drag royalty, celebrity hosts, and international DJs, alongside themed parties that celebrate Black queer culture. A standout is the P.R.O.S.P.E.R. Conference, convening Black trailblazers for discussions on leadership and community impact. Virgin Voyages' Valiant Lady, known for its adults-only, LGBTQ+-friendly vibe, will host this fully chartered experience, ensuring an affirming environment for all participants.
Pricing starts at $4,399 for solo occupancy or $4,262 per person for shared cabins, reflecting the all-inclusive nature covering meals, entertainment, and select beverages. Bookings are available via odysseypride.com, with early interest already high as the event positions itself as a trailblazer within niche queer travel. This follows recent charters like Atlantis' Exotic Southern Caribbean cruise from San Juan in February 2025 aboard the same ship line, which drew 2,800 LGBTQ+ travelers.
For many Black gay men, mainstream LGBTQ+ cruises can feel exclusionary despite their welcoming intent, prompting demand for culturally specific experiences. Odyssey Pride's voyage addresses this by centering Black joy, resilience, and excellence, from its entertainment lineup to the P.R.O.S.P.E.R. Conference. Community leaders note that such events foster visibility and networking in spaces often dominated by white gay men.
Wikipedia's entry on LGBTQ+ cruises underscores their rise as a key segment of queer tourism, with charters adapting mainstream ships for inclusive programming. Olivia Travel's 2025 Coral Jubilee on Nieuw Statendam, celebrating 35 years with over 2,600 LGBTQ+ women, exemplifies parallel growth in lesbian-focused cruises. These developments reflect broader acceptance, as cruise lines like Virgin Voyages partner repeatedly with queer organizers.
As LGBTQ+ travel expands, Odyssey Pride's cruise arrives at a pivotal moment, offering Black gay men a dedicated platform amid a crowded field. With stops in vibrant Caribbean destinations and a focus on empowerment, it promises to redefine "first" in queer cruising history. Travelers are encouraged to visit odysseypride.com for reservations, ensuring spots on this historic sailing.
